I cried for weeks, asking for clarity, or for a divine intervention.She looks so sad. In her tree, just peering down, not even looking at the birds out there.
I just cried all over her, talking to her, & praying for clairity, because I don't want to regret or doubt anything.
I also asked not to make me decide, but I had to...
Luckily I and Lola had a great way of communication, so when I asked her if it was time and she said "yes" I know I wouldn't have anything to regret. It was clear.
With Pallina I hadn't to do anything, she went away on her own.
I hope your Sammie can send you a clear message of what she wish.