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I hope so too. Some treats do have limits. Let's hope the Purebites didn't have a limit. I would guess it would have to be sustained to be a problem but it is best to listen to the limits.
She understands them and trusts them. That is normal to growl at times, just to let them know where the line is. They fit well together.
Interesting. I was thinking that maybe the memory was coming back. I had a stray dog that I am sure fathered some dogs and years after he was neutered he did that as do some of the ferals sometimes even years after. But those guys I am sure fathered kittens as well. Oh well, there goes that theory for Ash.
I know. It is very difficult. Just keep observing and trying to learn. I guess I have been around so many cats for so many years I just have a sense of it when I see it. It is hard to explain though. The key is always have intense it is and then how they act after. And play can go over the line at times then they tell the other one and then they reset. It is complicated. But I guess though it isn't perfect and we can improve it we are not in a bad place either. But we do need to keep building confidence, making positive associations, and trying to make every encounter as positive as possible.
Yes, they do get along well. But yes, it is hard to see them almost get into fights. Some cats are just more insecure generally. Ember may just be and therefore needs that extra work and attention. Yes, Ash is a big part of it. And the way he acts will help Ember. So the fact Ash rebounds quickly is very good. And Ember can't be that afraid of him because she would be more skittish etc around him especially when he gets a bit naughty with her.
Oh, I know. I always feel badly about having to be away as well. But all we can do is our best and you are right, it is very good she has your mom to be with. That stability is very helpful since cats are creatures of habit. Well, hopefully we will build her confidence and security so that when the time comes a stranger has to be with her she can handle it. And the fact you come back is very helpful to her understanding it is only temporary.
That is good that she went high. Hahahaha, Frost. We all have a Frost like that.
Yeah. Yes, some cats do like be the only cat BUT they like their family as well. They can go either way. Some HAVE to be with other cats. Yeah, I think it would be tough to add another one with Ember. It is hard in general but Ember would be especially difficult.
I can imagine!! That is terrific. She really was good!!! Just wonderful!!
She understands them and trusts them. That is normal to growl at times, just to let them know where the line is. They fit well together.
Interesting. I was thinking that maybe the memory was coming back. I had a stray dog that I am sure fathered some dogs and years after he was neutered he did that as do some of the ferals sometimes even years after. But those guys I am sure fathered kittens as well. Oh well, there goes that theory for Ash.
I know. It is very difficult. Just keep observing and trying to learn. I guess I have been around so many cats for so many years I just have a sense of it when I see it. It is hard to explain though. The key is always have intense it is and then how they act after. And play can go over the line at times then they tell the other one and then they reset. It is complicated. But I guess though it isn't perfect and we can improve it we are not in a bad place either. But we do need to keep building confidence, making positive associations, and trying to make every encounter as positive as possible.
Yes, they do get along well. But yes, it is hard to see them almost get into fights. Some cats are just more insecure generally. Ember may just be and therefore needs that extra work and attention. Yes, Ash is a big part of it. And the way he acts will help Ember. So the fact Ash rebounds quickly is very good. And Ember can't be that afraid of him because she would be more skittish etc around him especially when he gets a bit naughty with her.
Oh, I know. I always feel badly about having to be away as well. But all we can do is our best and you are right, it is very good she has your mom to be with. That stability is very helpful since cats are creatures of habit. Well, hopefully we will build her confidence and security so that when the time comes a stranger has to be with her she can handle it. And the fact you come back is very helpful to her understanding it is only temporary.
That is good that she went high. Hahahaha, Frost. We all have a Frost like that.
Yeah. Yes, some cats do like be the only cat BUT they like their family as well. They can go either way. Some HAVE to be with other cats. Yeah, I think it would be tough to add another one with Ember. It is hard in general but Ember would be especially difficult.
I can imagine!! That is terrific. She really was good!!! Just wonderful!!