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Thank you, it just happened today so this will help me sleep instead of letting it gnaw on me. Your answer makes good sense. I'm not sure I want to meet the son, at least not in the near future. and who knows how I'll feel in the future about the whole thing.Personally? I'd let the whole thing drop. You were kind enough to offer assistance to a friend and he knows that you are more than capable of handling it. If his son wants to go to all the trouble of handling that job himself, fine. He doesn't know you and he doesn't know what you are capable of but YOU do and his opinion will never change your reality. Since you won't be helping him that day, do something fun instead. Something just for you. You deserve it.