Probably if you didn’t bonk your head you will be okay. A big dose of ibruprophen and a hot bath followed by a long nap will help you feel better.
It's an unfortunate part of our world. Women are sexist to men and other women and men are sexist to women and other men. It's never gonna end imo."Sexist old guys"... Hate to break it to ya, but they're everywhere; part of the fabric, you might say.
Just last week, hubby and I were chatting with a friend who was expressing his interest in a lady. Thing is, there's another friend of his who also has an interest in the same lady. Apparently this other friend's comment was "That gal's gonna date me, she just doesn't know it yet". I soooo cringed. When I looked at my friend, he must have seen it. He just said, "yah, I don't know how to break it to the guy that ain't gonna cut it."
Another friend, my high school flame, has a friend who is constantly demeaning women in his commentary and language. I asked my high school friend about it, and he just kinda shrugged and said, "that's just the way he is".
It's like guys don't know how to call each other out on their bull when it comes to women. They just shrug and say how difficult it is to understand women, so they make up their own narrative. Unfortunately, I don't see it changing any time soon.
Sympathies. The death of an appliance is always a stressful thing.
Do you have any idea of the damage that copious drool can do to a keyboard???
IF he is single now, why not? He may be a jerk now, if so, you'll stop thinking about him entirely. If not...neither of you are the same people you were. Why not see if you both like who you each are now? Worst that can happen is nothing, which is EXACTLY what will happen if you don't.
Yeah. They always die at the worst times. Mine has been acting a bit funny lately. I'm hoping it will last till the first of the year. And...when it goes, do I carry it to the dumpster, or do I bury it in the back yard, erect a tombstone, and say, "Farewell, you good and faithful friend!"?
If the job is making you crazy or sick, start looking NOW. It is far better and easier to get a new job if you are still working and quitting a job without another one can be financially disastrous. Even the process of looking can also make you feel better while you are sticking it out.
Yeah, I'm looking around for jobs currently, and I'm gonna leave as soon as I am able to, but I agree, I won't quit until I have another job lined up. Honestly I really might just go across the street and see if the church needs another janitor. If so and they are willing to hire me I'll use that to just get away and figure out where to go next from there. It's a huge building so I'd be surprised if there wasn't at least one position open. If there aren't I'll just keep looking. But my work friends here makes staying here for now not as bad. But man do I get sick of my boss and supervisor and their unrealistic expectations. My friends make me forget for a moment just how miserable this place is.
Yeah it's frustrating. All they expect night shift (the slowest shift) to do is mop the main hallways, which only takes about an hour, sometimes less. And yet my shift, one of the busiest, is expected to dust, wipe things down, sweep, mop, vacuum, do detail work, clean bathrooms, etc etc. How is that fair? I'd bet money if I was night shift they'd tell me to do what they expect me to do now...
Aw,,,,,,,,Sounds like there is some unfinished business between you two.
You could always meet up for a weekend half way between your homes.I used to meet someone in Harrisburg, PA and he would come from Philadelphia. It was nice.Wow. He sure knows how to send mixed messages.
My instincts say, wait for somebody a little nicer. You deserve better. 
I've had time to analyze my feelings and I think the reason I was so upset by the whole situation is because I've been feeling very unappreciated in my life.Wow. He sure knows how to send mixed messages.
Graceful-Lily
Have you thought of going on Match? That's how
Lari
met her man and her sis did as well.
I might give it a try. Thank you for the suggestion!
How are you doing since the fall?
ABSOLUTELY, and you're super duper welcome, as is everyone
