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Maybe, but it kept happening. You'd think they'd either stop doing it or get used to it.
The problem with Frost is none of the reasons really make sense. He's been healthy, no signs of pain or anything. He lets me brush him and basically do whatever I want. He's friendly and has never shown signs of insecurity, nor has he been given reason to be insecure. Neither of the other two have actively aggressively towards him other than a few small hisses from Ash.
Well the boys get it, especially Ash. It happens fairly often. But it's never happened to Ember. Her fur is short, so there's not really much for it to stick to.
I would say Ash is definitely not backing down anymore. The other night I heard hissing, but didn't worry too much. However, by the third hiss I decided to go out and check on them. Right about then there was this yowling noise. The only time I've ever heard any of them yowl is when Ash wants attention and that's a loud, mournful sound. This wasn't as loud, but angry sounding. I've no idea if it was him or Ember, but I've never heard Ember make such a loud sound. Even her loudest meow is pretty quiet. I went out there to see them in the storage room. Ash was standing between the cat tree out there and the door going into the kitchen. Ember was by the litter box out there and was actually the one trapped. That's not a situation I come across often. Frost was also out there just inside the room. But Ash had plenty of escape routes. He could have gone up the cat tree or out the room. He chose to stay there. I ended up stepping between them to keep it from escalating as they were growling at each other and I doubt it would have ended there. Ash wasn't budging and Ember felt threatened. Even if he did leave, she would have gone after him. Once they were no longer stuck there, I fed them treats.
Last night was similar. Some hissing followed by some yowling. Still don't know who did it. Went out there to see Ember by the dining room table, but she wasn't completely facing Ash. It almost made me wonder if she ran from him. But they ended up having a standoff and I sat out there talking calmly to them. Ash was in the kitchen and I didn't went to set anything off by going by him to get treats. Ash growled at her though and she responded with a growl of her own. She did go after him and slapped him, but he didn't leave. Then she took off and went around the table just to come back, but stayed near the table. Then I went and got treats and freeze dried beef liver fixed everything. It's really amazing how they go from tense, can't be within ten feet of each other, to totally fine and eating within inches of each other in a matter of seconds. Food solves everything. There was still some tension, but nothing severe. Ember went over and sat right behind Ash. He didn't move, but you could tell he didn't like it. His ears were tilted and his eyes were narrowed and sometimes he look over his shoulder at her. But she walked away and all was well.
Other than that there was one more incident with Frost. I don't know what he did. Ash was on the couch next to me, Frost was on the floor. He did something. Bit Ash's tail or whatever. Ash jerked around and made an aggressive sounding meow. Ember got tense. He growled at her. She slapped him. Then it was over. I hope Frost stops that. It's all minor, but I'd rather he didn't add to the tension.
The problem with Frost is none of the reasons really make sense. He's been healthy, no signs of pain or anything. He lets me brush him and basically do whatever I want. He's friendly and has never shown signs of insecurity, nor has he been given reason to be insecure. Neither of the other two have actively aggressively towards him other than a few small hisses from Ash.
Well the boys get it, especially Ash. It happens fairly often. But it's never happened to Ember. Her fur is short, so there's not really much for it to stick to.
I would say Ash is definitely not backing down anymore. The other night I heard hissing, but didn't worry too much. However, by the third hiss I decided to go out and check on them. Right about then there was this yowling noise. The only time I've ever heard any of them yowl is when Ash wants attention and that's a loud, mournful sound. This wasn't as loud, but angry sounding. I've no idea if it was him or Ember, but I've never heard Ember make such a loud sound. Even her loudest meow is pretty quiet. I went out there to see them in the storage room. Ash was standing between the cat tree out there and the door going into the kitchen. Ember was by the litter box out there and was actually the one trapped. That's not a situation I come across often. Frost was also out there just inside the room. But Ash had plenty of escape routes. He could have gone up the cat tree or out the room. He chose to stay there. I ended up stepping between them to keep it from escalating as they were growling at each other and I doubt it would have ended there. Ash wasn't budging and Ember felt threatened. Even if he did leave, she would have gone after him. Once they were no longer stuck there, I fed them treats.
Last night was similar. Some hissing followed by some yowling. Still don't know who did it. Went out there to see Ember by the dining room table, but she wasn't completely facing Ash. It almost made me wonder if she ran from him. But they ended up having a standoff and I sat out there talking calmly to them. Ash was in the kitchen and I didn't went to set anything off by going by him to get treats. Ash growled at her though and she responded with a growl of her own. She did go after him and slapped him, but he didn't leave. Then she took off and went around the table just to come back, but stayed near the table. Then I went and got treats and freeze dried beef liver fixed everything. It's really amazing how they go from tense, can't be within ten feet of each other, to totally fine and eating within inches of each other in a matter of seconds. Food solves everything. There was still some tension, but nothing severe. Ember went over and sat right behind Ash. He didn't move, but you could tell he didn't like it. His ears were tilted and his eyes were narrowed and sometimes he look over his shoulder at her. But she walked away and all was well.
Other than that there was one more incident with Frost. I don't know what he did. Ash was on the couch next to me, Frost was on the floor. He did something. Bit Ash's tail or whatever. Ash jerked around and made an aggressive sounding meow. Ember got tense. He growled at her. She slapped him. Then it was over. I hope Frost stops that. It's all minor, but I'd rather he didn't add to the tension.