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I love routines too, but it seems life doesn't want me to have one. I keep having to add things and move things around.
I have found it to be quite difficult. Even watching it play out, things often happen in a matter of seconds.
That seems about right. I wish I knew what started it all though. And now we have the added problem of the storage room door not staying open, so Ash can't get in there in time. He gets stuck against that door.
I got lucky with that though. They aren't usually that open to being petted and being that close to each other. Especially not Ember. I was surprised she got over it so quickly, but it didn't last. No, Ember doesn't seem to care much about growling or hissing. The good part of that is that she used to attack Ash instantly if he growled, even if she wasn't so much as in the same room as him.
I always thought it was odd that she wouldn't react to Frost's hisses and growls, but would go after Ash for doing it even if it wasn't aimed at her. They, too, get along fairly often, but it's definitely worse. His crabbiness has been going on for some time now, but it's kind of come and gone in cycles. Sometimes it would happen once or twice a day, sometimes one or twice a week. However, it's never been as bad as it has been lately.
It's just difficult because I want them to live happy, stress free lives. I stress easily and know what it's like to live with that. I don't want the same for them. I don't want them to have to feel fear or have to watch over their shoulder in their own home.
I think I understood everything just fine.
By the way, I keep forgetting to ask, when do you think I should worry about them being cold? Our house has been everywhere from sixty degrees F to seventy degrees. It doesn't bother me too much, but they're ears and nose and feet get really cold. Ember is laying on and next to me more than usual and she tolerates more from me. Normally, I can barely move a centimeter without her taking off. Now I pretty much have to actually get up before she leaves. She's very persistent and seems to always be looking for a way under the covers. But at least she comes to me for warmth. I worry about Ash whose two favorite rooms are the coldest.
I have found it to be quite difficult. Even watching it play out, things often happen in a matter of seconds.
That seems about right. I wish I knew what started it all though. And now we have the added problem of the storage room door not staying open, so Ash can't get in there in time. He gets stuck against that door.
I got lucky with that though. They aren't usually that open to being petted and being that close to each other. Especially not Ember. I was surprised she got over it so quickly, but it didn't last. No, Ember doesn't seem to care much about growling or hissing. The good part of that is that she used to attack Ash instantly if he growled, even if she wasn't so much as in the same room as him.
I always thought it was odd that she wouldn't react to Frost's hisses and growls, but would go after Ash for doing it even if it wasn't aimed at her. They, too, get along fairly often, but it's definitely worse. His crabbiness has been going on for some time now, but it's kind of come and gone in cycles. Sometimes it would happen once or twice a day, sometimes one or twice a week. However, it's never been as bad as it has been lately.
It's just difficult because I want them to live happy, stress free lives. I stress easily and know what it's like to live with that. I don't want the same for them. I don't want them to have to feel fear or have to watch over their shoulder in their own home.
I think I understood everything just fine.
By the way, I keep forgetting to ask, when do you think I should worry about them being cold? Our house has been everywhere from sixty degrees F to seventy degrees. It doesn't bother me too much, but they're ears and nose and feet get really cold. Ember is laying on and next to me more than usual and she tolerates more from me. Normally, I can barely move a centimeter without her taking off. Now I pretty much have to actually get up before she leaves. She's very persistent and seems to always be looking for a way under the covers. But at least she comes to me for warmth. I worry about Ash whose two favorite rooms are the coldest.