I'm sorry it's not going better. Are you able to get a black light and enzyme cleaner? I know they are both still scared from the attack but I also wonder if the stray marked when it got in or is still marking your door. Also look around your home for any accident spots.
The cone might not be a bad idea. It won't hurt her, give her something different to be annoyed with, and can easily be removed. Wait a while after putting the cone on before letting her see Meimey so she doesn't associate Meimey with the cone.
Have you asked your vet or local pet supply about calming products in your area? Many people use Feliway. Bachs Rescue Remedy is helping our skittish boy. Cooled Chamomile tea made from the tea bags not loose might help all of you relax a little. Give them a teaspoonful a few times a day.
The cone might not be a bad idea. It won't hurt her, give her something different to be annoyed with, and can easily be removed. Wait a while after putting the cone on before letting her see Meimey so she doesn't associate Meimey with the cone.
Have you asked your vet or local pet supply about calming products in your area? Many people use Feliway. Bachs Rescue Remedy is helping our skittish boy. Cooled Chamomile tea made from the tea bags not loose might help all of you relax a little. Give them a teaspoonful a few times a day.