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You gotta let go of the whole I don’t know anyone who took this long to introduce two cats. When I start to do that it makes me feel terrible. So let that go. Also I think you should try two things. Hang a blanket up on the netted door for now so sight is limited. This will reduce stress that has accumulated with all this fighting. Also I think you need to really get into the habit of site swapping through out the day. Switch which kitty is in which room. They both need to feel comfortable with the space before they can begin to trust each other. As far as the limited site thing, I think you need to slowly raise the blanket up every day. But maybe for the next couple days don’t let them see each other at all. They have to forget the stressful times they have had together and need to start having limited positive moments so they can start to build some trust. Don’t hesitate to keep posting. All the advice you can get right now will help. Most of all you hang in there and remain calm. You are the provider for them and they feed off the energy you put out. So if you are stressed, sad or mad they will pick up on it and it really plays into their behavior. Someone told me this on the forum the other day and they couldn’t have been more right.