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Hi. I'm Sharon and I'm new.
I'm trying to introduce a new kitten (Stella) to my cat (Betsy).
It may be a long story, and I hope you bear with me cause I really need the help.
I have had betsy for about 3 years now, since she was about a month old. We use to live with roomates, but for the last two years it's been just us. I work and study a lot ad I felt bad that she's alone all the time, but I never had the time to introduce a new cat.
About 3 weeks ago my boss told me about a kitten that someone abandoned at our work (not Stella), with out given much thoght I decided to take her, but it we couldn't find her (hopefully someone elae took her) we did find Stella.
I brought Stella home (after having a vet check her) and locked her in the bedroom (I slept with Betsy in the living room) for the next few days. I opened the door a few times to let the two cats see each other and when the weekend came I set Stella loose in the apartment. They didn't really get along but they also didn't see to fight too much. After a few more days, i came home to see that Betsy peed on my bed and one of them (I assume Stella) popped under the sofa. But I know i'm home now for a week so I can check on them. When The next day I could smell pee under the sofa so I moved it to clean and I noticed a dried puddle of blood.
I checked both of them and found a few small scratches, not big enough to explain the blood on the floor. The next day I saw Betsy scratching her.
Stella started hiding o top of the chair under the kitchen table. Whe I saw Betsy going there to pick on her I created a small fort eith a box and a sheet on top. I made a two small doors that stella can get out of, but Betsy can't fit through, so she could go to the food and the sand box. I thought that whould give them both their own place and a meeting ground. I was wrong. One evening when Stella tried to use the Box, Betsy jumped her, She got stuck in the sheet and peed on her self. That's when I looked up and saw that this is normal when you introduce cats too fast.
I put food and a sand box in the fort and sealed the doors (I can't lock her in the bedroom again, too long to explain why). I left the sheet off during the day and covered it at night (picture included). Stella can still get out behind the stove next to the table, but betsy can't get in. It seems to work. Stella stays inside all the time, I play with her and take her for walks in the apartment or have her sit on my lap a bit when I work. Betsy strated sitting next to the box peeping at Stella through the handle (as shown in picture). They sometines growl at each other, Betsy attacks the side of the fort sometimes. They both seem to be okay. Yesterday I started bring Stella (in mmy hands) near Betsy and giving them treats to try and associate the exprience as a good thing.
Today was my first day back in work and I was scared, but when I came home after 12 hours, I saw that everything was fine. I left the sheet covring the fort all day and opened it when I came home. Everything was as usual until I heard Stella Jump out of the fort, ad so did Betsy. At first she ran behinf the stove and Betsy went back to the living room (by the way my apartment is small, about 50% of it is the living room, and the kitchen has no door). That's when stell decided to come to the entrance of the kitchen and hide under a few folded chairs. They started sniffing and growling at wach other. I stood next to them with a string toy and treats to try and come them down. Betsy at some point got more interested in the toy and followed me to the bedroom (where my laptoop is, since I wanted to write this massage), after a while she want back to the kitchen (with me behind her) and they started growling at each other and this time I panicked and put Stella back at the fort.
Right now Betsy is with me in the bedroom, sleeping in her basket and Stella playing/ sleeping in her own basket in the fort.
I'm sorry this is so long but I wanted to give the all story.
Am I doing things right, or am I really messing things up?
What else should I do to make this easier on them and help them get along?
Should I still live Stella in the fort whem I'm at work (I work 12 hour days) or should I lock her up in the bedroom and return her to the fort at night (or block the area behind the stove)?
I'm really stressed about it (during the first week I had two minor panic attacks).
Thank you to any one who manages to read through this and answers (and I'm sorry about my english)
I'm trying to introduce a new kitten (Stella) to my cat (Betsy).
It may be a long story, and I hope you bear with me cause I really need the help.
I have had betsy for about 3 years now, since she was about a month old. We use to live with roomates, but for the last two years it's been just us. I work and study a lot ad I felt bad that she's alone all the time, but I never had the time to introduce a new cat.
About 3 weeks ago my boss told me about a kitten that someone abandoned at our work (not Stella), with out given much thoght I decided to take her, but it we couldn't find her (hopefully someone elae took her) we did find Stella.
I brought Stella home (after having a vet check her) and locked her in the bedroom (I slept with Betsy in the living room) for the next few days. I opened the door a few times to let the two cats see each other and when the weekend came I set Stella loose in the apartment. They didn't really get along but they also didn't see to fight too much. After a few more days, i came home to see that Betsy peed on my bed and one of them (I assume Stella) popped under the sofa. But I know i'm home now for a week so I can check on them. When The next day I could smell pee under the sofa so I moved it to clean and I noticed a dried puddle of blood.
I checked both of them and found a few small scratches, not big enough to explain the blood on the floor. The next day I saw Betsy scratching her.
Stella started hiding o top of the chair under the kitchen table. Whe I saw Betsy going there to pick on her I created a small fort eith a box and a sheet on top. I made a two small doors that stella can get out of, but Betsy can't fit through, so she could go to the food and the sand box. I thought that whould give them both their own place and a meeting ground. I was wrong. One evening when Stella tried to use the Box, Betsy jumped her, She got stuck in the sheet and peed on her self. That's when I looked up and saw that this is normal when you introduce cats too fast.
I put food and a sand box in the fort and sealed the doors (I can't lock her in the bedroom again, too long to explain why). I left the sheet off during the day and covered it at night (picture included). Stella can still get out behind the stove next to the table, but betsy can't get in. It seems to work. Stella stays inside all the time, I play with her and take her for walks in the apartment or have her sit on my lap a bit when I work. Betsy strated sitting next to the box peeping at Stella through the handle (as shown in picture). They sometines growl at each other, Betsy attacks the side of the fort sometimes. They both seem to be okay. Yesterday I started bring Stella (in mmy hands) near Betsy and giving them treats to try and associate the exprience as a good thing.
Today was my first day back in work and I was scared, but when I came home after 12 hours, I saw that everything was fine. I left the sheet covring the fort all day and opened it when I came home. Everything was as usual until I heard Stella Jump out of the fort, ad so did Betsy. At first she ran behinf the stove and Betsy went back to the living room (by the way my apartment is small, about 50% of it is the living room, and the kitchen has no door). That's when stell decided to come to the entrance of the kitchen and hide under a few folded chairs. They started sniffing and growling at wach other. I stood next to them with a string toy and treats to try and come them down. Betsy at some point got more interested in the toy and followed me to the bedroom (where my laptoop is, since I wanted to write this massage), after a while she want back to the kitchen (with me behind her) and they started growling at each other and this time I panicked and put Stella back at the fort.
Right now Betsy is with me in the bedroom, sleeping in her basket and Stella playing/ sleeping in her own basket in the fort.
I'm sorry this is so long but I wanted to give the all story.
Am I doing things right, or am I really messing things up?
What else should I do to make this easier on them and help them get along?
Should I still live Stella in the fort whem I'm at work (I work 12 hour days) or should I lock her up in the bedroom and return her to the fort at night (or block the area behind the stove)?
I'm really stressed about it (during the first week I had two minor panic attacks).
Thank you to any one who manages to read through this and answers (and I'm sorry about my english)
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