The post I posted awhile ago on this thread about raising kids well is something to look at. As far as kids being too young to learn gentleness, respect, caring, compassion, and love for cats, I learned from birth.I've heard that about cats. But when they're jumping from their litter box to my bed and spreading litter and walking around after burying their waste, it just will never feel clean to me. I vacuum 3 times a day and there's constantly litter all over. My cat loves kicking litter.
I know they aren't the problem. Just want to eventually have my own bedroom. That's the one place that i like to myself. I take pride in having a clean peaceful room.
I want the cats safe, it's the only reason I'm doing this. Just desperately want peace and quiet in my life. Now they keep me up all night and i already struggle with sleeping.
My niece is acting two faced and saying i should ask her mom to let the cats visit downstairs. I'm sure the reason the cats are permanently upstairs (even without my sister being here) is because my niece is too lazy to watch her son and teach him how to treat animals. My sister claims hes too small to learn. Which is BS.
Had my dr appointment today. Was falling asleep the entire time. Lol they have me trying a new medicine to see if the abnormal cells i have finish clearing up.
I have to go to a regular dr soon. My bp is still very high even on medication.