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That's a good idea! Thank you for the suggestion. I do have an air filter in my room. So hopefully that should help.I spent a lot of time in Miami and many parts of Florida. Miami was getting rather crowded the last time I was there. It is pretty there but so much of Florida is lovely. I hope you can find someplace that will give you all you desire. Family is great to have but maybe you could enjoy them more if you weren’t having to deal with anyone who has allergies or worry about a small child. If anyone does say anything about the AC bringing allergens in, there are filters you can put on your bedroom vent! Of course there are heaps filters for the air return that should work pretty well for the house but I thought that taking it a step further and being prepared with a new answer might put you a step ahead if it comes up. I have an allergic step sister. She doesn’t visit often but I am prepared.
Family is great, but i would love to not have to see them for a while. Just tired of the stress from them.
i hope so too. Thank you for your kind words and support. I pray you are right.I really hope you can find something at one of those colleges, so you can move away from Miami, and get a new start with your kitties. Good luck.
I've considered it. What used to stop me was moving far from the niece i helped raise. I promised my mom i would stay close to her. But i need to start thinking of myself like everyone else does.Ever-thoughtful Jcatbird has some good suggestions! Being proactive is something very important to me, especially since my last divorce and having to DIY. Or, have you thought about moving out of Florida entirely and checking out states with better climate, lower cost of living/population/crime etc.? Just a thought.
I also didn't want to drive too far with the cats, Kitty gets nervous in a car. But like i said, it's time to think about me for once in my life. I've used too much of my life helping others and not myself.
I do think it'll be easier to be closer so moving won't be complicated.
My sister gets here Monday unfortunately so I'm starting the process of moving in the cats. I'm nervous about this. I hope kitty doesn't freak out about this.
My brother offered to let my sister to stay with him, but she's so self absorbed that she insists on staying here and annoying us to deep clean the house.
She's been acting sickly for so many years that I've gotten to the point that i don't care anymore. Maybe that makes me awful and maybe thatll bring me horrible karma, but I'm sick of her and all the issues she's brought me.