I'm positive my references won't say anything negative. I got my current job thanks to my references saying positive things. My current boss told me about the conversation he had with them. but thank you for the reply. You can never be too careful.Are you using references? Is it possible that a reference is not saying good things about you to a potential employer? I've had that happen. Someone I had previously worked with and I thought I could trust and give me a good reference sabotaged at least 2 of the jobs I applied for for her own selfish reasons. It was something she said after I didn't heard back from a job interview despite a follow up email and phone that tipped me off. I stopped using her as a reference (didn't tell her) and gave her vague answers when she asked about my job search.
thank you for the advice i will be careful. and thank you for the article, i will check it out. I really think my shyness is what is mainly holding me back.Well, you never know so just be cautious of who you use as references. Looking back, I now realize that reference sabotaged my entire job search in numerous ways
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I agree.I hope he's all he seems to be, that will be wonderful for your sister.
Not sure. She hasn't told me anything yet. She hasn't asked me to just yet. She hasn't really discussed the house bills with us. I'll do what I can. But my focus is on moving out. My niece wants to move out too. She'll gave to figure out what to do with her house.So what happens now? Do you have to take over all the bills?
they married when my sister was 14. shes in her 50s now. so they knew each other for a short time. the marriage was fake because the family originally intended to get into the US by marriage. but in the end my parents and older siblings came to the US by boat. so the marriage was for nothing.Did they get married over the phone or something?
i dont know much about the law, but they married in cuba.So the marriage is legal? I have to admit that is kinda exciting and romantic.