thank you, that made me feel a lot better.
Just worried that i will waste time on all these medications and it wont work. I heard the type that i have is the most difficult to heal.Thank you! i've been very blessed to have caught this early.
Sometimes I place my cat's dish kinda near the potty. Not right next to it, but a bit away. It doesn't stink because it's clumping litter.
mine too. i was just worried because their sense of smell is strong. i'll try to put their bowls as close to the left as i can.
I promised i would go see her.How old is he? Is he old enough to start learning about how to treat animals gently?
he'll be two years old in september. his mom is trying to teach him to be gentle with her dog. but he keeps smacking the dog. he doesnt listen and throws a tantrum when you try to tell him no. sounds mean because i love kids, but i avoid watching him as much as i can. i cant take the tantrums. he may be young, but he needs to learn what the word no means. I kept trying to stop him from throwing a box on himself and he just screeched and kept going for the box.
Thats the problem with living in someone elses house. I do have to respect my sisters home. I wouldnt want someone in my home changing things and disrespecting me. She made a huge concession by letting me move the litter box so i am grateful for that. But its the reason i want my own home so that cats wont need to be stressed out. So they can be the priority in the house. I have been fighting with family for years for them to understand what they mean to me and they dont understand.
Shes actually leaving her hiding spot more, but still stays close to her house in case she needs to hide.
Yeah, I understand. I couldn't live anywhere where anyone was a potential problem for my loved ones. I cut people a fair amount of slack when it comes to me personally, but anyone that disrespects my cats is OUT. It sounds like the kid needs some serious disciplining, and consistently! Kids that age are learning things they carry all their lives, so it's really important to make sure they get the message then and someone needs to reinforce it every time they mess up. You don't get do-overs when someone is smaller and more fragile.he'll be two years old in september. his mom is trying to teach him to be gentle with her dog. but he keeps smacking the dog. he doesnt listen and throws a tantrum when you try to tell him no. sounds mean because i love kids, but i avoid watching him as much as i can. i cant take the tantrums. he may be young, but he needs to learn what the word no means. I kept trying to stop him from throwing a box on himself and he just screeched and kept going for the box.
Elsa is mostly scared because he runs around with his huge toy cars and makes noise. He doesnt really bother the cats, just tends to watch them. I wonder if he realizes how small they are? he hasnt tried to forcefully pet them.
Thats the problem with living in someone elses house. I do have to respect my sisters home. I wouldnt want someone in my home changing things and disrespecting me. She made a huge concession by letting me move the litter box so i am grateful for that. But its the reason i want my own home so that cats wont need to be stressed out. So they can be the priority in the house. I have been fighting with family for years for them to understand what they mean to me and they dont understand.
I'll try to find a way to block the litter box off somehow. i'll try to work on that this weekend. hopefully she'll start roaming soon so i can move it back.
I get that, the problem is that i dont make much money. I live in miami and the cost of living is very high. Plus, i now have the expenses of my health. i dont like it here, but i cant afford anything better. I was about to move into a really tiny efficiency (just one room and a bathroom, attached to someones house) but my medical expenses started piling up and i couldnt afford it.
Cats are very much beings of pattern. Elsa knew her box was in a certain location. It may take time for her to adapt to the new one.
I am going to start looking around at places/jobs a little further from Miami. There might be cheaper places to live in florida. Just have to be positive and hope something comes up.
i really want to experience being fully independent and see new places.
Sometimes you can find affordable gems a little farther out from the metro area. I know we did when we bought our place in the Mojave!I am going to start looking around at places/jobs a little further from Miami. There might be cheaper places to live in florida. Just have to be positive and hope something comes up.
I hope elsa figures out how to find her box in the middle of the night, i left a night light on nearby. lol
I'll be looking around. I just want to be sure i go somewhere that i feel safe leaving the kitties alone all day.Sometimes you can find affordable gems a little farther out from the metro area. I know we did when we bought our place in the Mojave!
Yes, me too, Elsa
Generally speaking companies like to hire from within, i.e. it's more cost effective and they can easily check your references/work performance. Keep in mind, depending on the company, your boss/supervisor might be notified so if this is something you are serious about and have all the qualifications you may want to consider talking with him or her first. Can you speak with the personnel in your humans relations dept. to ask whether your boss would be notified about your interest in applying for another job? This might be helpful in making your decision whether for now or the future. However, I applaud you for wanting to move up and it's a natural feeling to want to better your career. Being someone who likes to get all their ducks in a row I would want to get all the facts first before making a final decision. Good luck and you have my full support.
Thats really great advice, thank you!Generally speaking companies like to hire from within, i.e. it's more cost effective and they can easily check your references/work performance. Keep in mind, depending on the company, your boss/supervisor might be notified so if this is something you are serious about and have all the qualifications you may want to consider talking with him or her first. Can you speak with the personnel in your humans relations dept. to ask whether your boss would be notified about your interest in applying for another job? This might be helpful in making your decision whether for now or the future. However, I applaud you for wanting to move up and it's a natural feeling to want to better your career. Being someone who likes to get all their ducks in a row I would want to get all the facts first before making a final decision. Good luck and you have my full support.
I'll start with human resources and then decide from there. I just dont know if people would treat me differently in my office if i let them know. Our college can take months to hire people, so im not sure if he would be annoyed that i want to move up.
Human beings are always a risky business. Wishing you the best, though. *PRAYERS* for that. How are you doing this weekend?Thats really great advice, thank you!
He's been nice so far but you never know.
Doing better. thankfully my sister has left me alone the time that she has been here. The only negative is the house is such a mess. I had it looking so nice. I am obsessive about my bathroom. Im sharing it with my niece and her BF, and its such a mess that its stressing me out.
Why would the Supreme Being create us all unique and different if that was not part of the Plan? If we were all the same, what a terrible, boring, colorless place this would be, don't you agree?
