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You are a wonderful parent to them.
Given time I think they will probably get closer. It always depends on the personalities but Ember is doing her part. Stella just needs to build more trust. You are right, the fast movements can be unsettling. But the more she realizes that the cats don't mean anything she will be more trusting and get use to the movements.
Very good, the treats can be high in calories. I have to watch mine with human food as well.
They love to sneak up on their prey, it really is cute whether around a corner, or up on something. Good hunters.
It is good that they are getting over it quickly but I would like to see that they no longer feel the need to do that. They still seem to be testing each other or working things out. Does it mostly happen right before feeding? Is it usually in about the same place? There could be a food competition going on. Or just a negative association in that area. At least it is not escalating into a fight. If at all possible I would like to get to the point where Ember doesn't need to be locked away. I am concerned that she may take it negatively and it could lead to continued negative associations with Ash. I don't think it is an issue yet especially because she was eating while he walked by after it happened but I do think we need to watch it.
Just be careful picking her up when she is in that mode. Cats can redirect some aggression and I don't want you to get hurt. I would prefer you to use a pillow or a piece of cardboard or something to block the site and distract.
It does bother me that she seemed to be more focused on him this time. And the body language. Keep working on them so that when they are together they are getting along, no incidents, etc. The more they are together and nothing happens the more they will trust each other. If they start focusing on each other try to distract.
I just wonder if it is food related in that area that they get more "amped up". You may want to consider putting the cans out a bit early and having them more accessible so that when you feed it is a quicker process and they aren't around for as long and more likely to get "into it".
Given time I think they will probably get closer. It always depends on the personalities but Ember is doing her part. Stella just needs to build more trust. You are right, the fast movements can be unsettling. But the more she realizes that the cats don't mean anything she will be more trusting and get use to the movements.
Very good, the treats can be high in calories. I have to watch mine with human food as well.
They love to sneak up on their prey, it really is cute whether around a corner, or up on something. Good hunters.
It is good that they are getting over it quickly but I would like to see that they no longer feel the need to do that. They still seem to be testing each other or working things out. Does it mostly happen right before feeding? Is it usually in about the same place? There could be a food competition going on. Or just a negative association in that area. At least it is not escalating into a fight. If at all possible I would like to get to the point where Ember doesn't need to be locked away. I am concerned that she may take it negatively and it could lead to continued negative associations with Ash. I don't think it is an issue yet especially because she was eating while he walked by after it happened but I do think we need to watch it.
Just be careful picking her up when she is in that mode. Cats can redirect some aggression and I don't want you to get hurt. I would prefer you to use a pillow or a piece of cardboard or something to block the site and distract.
It does bother me that she seemed to be more focused on him this time. And the body language. Keep working on them so that when they are together they are getting along, no incidents, etc. The more they are together and nothing happens the more they will trust each other. If they start focusing on each other try to distract.
I just wonder if it is food related in that area that they get more "amped up". You may want to consider putting the cans out a bit early and having them more accessible so that when you feed it is a quicker process and they aren't around for as long and more likely to get "into it".