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Ugh, I'm so sorry. There really is no excuse. At least not any that left me incapable of getting on. I was dealing with my own emotions and hoping I'd come with some more positive news. It's mostly my own guilt that's prevented me from returning to this site. Sadly, we did not take Ash to the vet. We saw him in the litter box Saturday morning and my mom decided to cancel the appointment. It's been one of my worst mistakes. I regret it terribly and I've been stressing myself out trying to keep an eye on him and see if he's been having any problems, even going as far as locking him in a room alone with a clean litter box overnight which gave few results. I'm still stressed trying to ensure he's peeing all right. I mean, he seems fine. He's playing, looking for attention, eating, and I have seen him in the litter box multiple times. I'm just not sure if he's peeing. He hasn't been urinating on anything outside the box though so I'm hoping that's a good sign. He doesn't usually hesitate to use a towel when he's having issues and there have been a few of them on the floor. It's really just me. I'm worried. I don't want to have an issue escalate and go unnoticed so I'm looking for any sign of discomfort or inability to pee, which I've found none. I suppose he's fine and doing well, but still I worry. And I assure you, this is not something I plan on doing again. The second there's a problem, he'll be going to the vet. I'd still like to talk to them about what we might be able to do to prevent future UTIs.
We did get another water bowl for my bedroom that they have all used. I can't sleep with it though so it gets unplugged at night. He's on his glucosamine and I'm putting water in his food to make sure he's getting enough. We got puppy pads to put down when he does have a UTI so that way (assuming he'll use them) we'll be able to see how much he's going and if there's any blood. It'll also save our towels and rugs. I also started a horrible habit. I started turning the faucet on for him and he just plays in it. I mean, I guess he gets some since he tries to bite the water, but he mostly just plays and now I can barely go to the bathroom without him following me in. Then he jumps up on the sink and stares at the faucet so expectantly I feel bad not turning it on.
Of course, on top of all this, I got sick Thursday and am still recovering, and this whole week has been a bit chaotic for no reason other than getting work thrown at me and I seem to find something to set my whole routine off balance. Then I'm running late and don't have the time to type a decent reply.
Other than all that, things have been okay. There have been a few incident, but none that had any lasting issues. The strangest was when I was playing with Ember using the laser light and she all of a sudden just stopped and started staring at something I couldn't see. She was perfectly still, wouldn't budge. I finally got up and walked over. She flicked her tail out from under a coat hanging on a chair and I saw it was all puffed up. Then I saw Ash just sitting in the doorway of the storage room. Don't know what had her all freaked, but she was definitely spooked.
The biggest incident was just the other night. Ember, for one reason or another, went at Ash. I don't know exactly what happened. I just heard some hissing which I've quit panicking over. Ash was curled up in my mom's room and Ember would go in there. My mom doesn't know who was growling, but someone was. I think it might have been Ash since he was all curled up and nervous while Ember was tense, but her tail wasn't puffed up or anything. However, it happened a few times before I actually got up. I picked Ember up and my mom picked Ash up. She wasn't even interested in him though. She was looking for an intruder so I carried her around a bit before she wanted to look on her own and jumped down. That was that.
I am concerned about Frost though. The hissing hasn't exactly increased a whole lot, but it seems more dramatic. The other day, Ember walked passed him and he made this weird croaking noise, slapped her twice, and then hissed. Then, even more recently, he was in my bathroom and Ash came up behind him. Frost looked over at him and hissed. Actually hissed! At Ash! It's not often those two are aggressive towards each other, especially Frost towards Ash. I don't know what to do about it though because I don't know what's causing it. They aren't touching him, aren't even usually looking at him. The vet said he was healthy. I don't know what it could be.
Another issue is Ember's weight. I finally got around to weighing her and the (extremely unreliable) scale said she was 11.8lbs. That's about the same as Ash. She is quite heavy when I pick her up, but she doesn't look it. Sure, you can tell she has a little extra fat on her, but she doesn't look obese or anything. She also hasn't lost any weight. She's playing quite a lot and has been cut back on her food and human food, so it seems like she should have lost some weight by now. Maybe not much, but at least a little. I don't know if she just has a low metabolism or if she's actually getting that much of the boys' food, but just hasn't lost any weight.
I'm considering making threads about Frost's hissing and Ember's weight issues, but it'll have to be when I have the time to type up the replies so it probably won't be until this weekend.
Sorry it's a lot. I had a lot to catch up on. There's nothing serious going on. They all seem to be fine and get along for the most part. They're tolerating Stella more and more and she's less and less fearful of them. I even saw her brush right under Ash's tail to get a drink and he just looked at her before walking away. She's been getting in their faces a lot though.
We did get another water bowl for my bedroom that they have all used. I can't sleep with it though so it gets unplugged at night. He's on his glucosamine and I'm putting water in his food to make sure he's getting enough. We got puppy pads to put down when he does have a UTI so that way (assuming he'll use them) we'll be able to see how much he's going and if there's any blood. It'll also save our towels and rugs. I also started a horrible habit. I started turning the faucet on for him and he just plays in it. I mean, I guess he gets some since he tries to bite the water, but he mostly just plays and now I can barely go to the bathroom without him following me in. Then he jumps up on the sink and stares at the faucet so expectantly I feel bad not turning it on.
Of course, on top of all this, I got sick Thursday and am still recovering, and this whole week has been a bit chaotic for no reason other than getting work thrown at me and I seem to find something to set my whole routine off balance. Then I'm running late and don't have the time to type a decent reply.
Other than all that, things have been okay. There have been a few incident, but none that had any lasting issues. The strangest was when I was playing with Ember using the laser light and she all of a sudden just stopped and started staring at something I couldn't see. She was perfectly still, wouldn't budge. I finally got up and walked over. She flicked her tail out from under a coat hanging on a chair and I saw it was all puffed up. Then I saw Ash just sitting in the doorway of the storage room. Don't know what had her all freaked, but she was definitely spooked.
The biggest incident was just the other night. Ember, for one reason or another, went at Ash. I don't know exactly what happened. I just heard some hissing which I've quit panicking over. Ash was curled up in my mom's room and Ember would go in there. My mom doesn't know who was growling, but someone was. I think it might have been Ash since he was all curled up and nervous while Ember was tense, but her tail wasn't puffed up or anything. However, it happened a few times before I actually got up. I picked Ember up and my mom picked Ash up. She wasn't even interested in him though. She was looking for an intruder so I carried her around a bit before she wanted to look on her own and jumped down. That was that.
I am concerned about Frost though. The hissing hasn't exactly increased a whole lot, but it seems more dramatic. The other day, Ember walked passed him and he made this weird croaking noise, slapped her twice, and then hissed. Then, even more recently, he was in my bathroom and Ash came up behind him. Frost looked over at him and hissed. Actually hissed! At Ash! It's not often those two are aggressive towards each other, especially Frost towards Ash. I don't know what to do about it though because I don't know what's causing it. They aren't touching him, aren't even usually looking at him. The vet said he was healthy. I don't know what it could be.
Another issue is Ember's weight. I finally got around to weighing her and the (extremely unreliable) scale said she was 11.8lbs. That's about the same as Ash. She is quite heavy when I pick her up, but she doesn't look it. Sure, you can tell she has a little extra fat on her, but she doesn't look obese or anything. She also hasn't lost any weight. She's playing quite a lot and has been cut back on her food and human food, so it seems like she should have lost some weight by now. Maybe not much, but at least a little. I don't know if she just has a low metabolism or if she's actually getting that much of the boys' food, but just hasn't lost any weight.
I'm considering making threads about Frost's hissing and Ember's weight issues, but it'll have to be when I have the time to type up the replies so it probably won't be until this weekend.
Sorry it's a lot. I had a lot to catch up on. There's nothing serious going on. They all seem to be fine and get along for the most part. They're tolerating Stella more and more and she's less and less fearful of them. I even saw her brush right under Ash's tail to get a drink and he just looked at her before walking away. She's been getting in their faces a lot though.