You have a very unenviable situation. My sympathy goes out to you! I know someone who has some of those problems, though not to the degree that you do.You LOVE the dentist?! The dentist is one of my biggest fears. I have bad genetics for tooth enamel so I'm constantly needing fillings/crowns no matter how frequently I brush and floss (which is currently 3 and 5 times a day). I've also had a lot of bad dental work done that's had to be repaired, and additionally I can't stay numb! I not only metabolize the numbing agent really quickly so it wears off, but I also need twice as much as most people just to get numb in the first place. There's been times where they couldn't give me any more and I just had to take it. Needless to say, I'm so frightened I have to have a family member come in with me every 6 months because I freak out so much. I envy you!!