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My Sweet Lola is at the Rainbow Bridge
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Yes Mia, she was a beauty indeed 
Her favorite wet food was Almo Tuna fish with Shrimps, but she was on a renal diet due to her CKD... A few days a year (New Year's Day, Easter day, Pallina's birthday, Lola's birthday, Christmas) we would "break the law", and she was allowed to have her favorite food. You should have seen her, she was so happy to have it that she had tears of joy in her eyes.
Her favorite wet food was Almo Tuna fish with Shrimps, but she was on a renal diet due to her CKD... A few days a year (New Year's Day, Easter day, Pallina's birthday, Lola's birthday, Christmas) we would "break the law", and she was allowed to have her favorite food. You should have seen her, she was so happy to have it that she had tears of joy in her eyes.
Happy birthday sweet, precious Lola. You will always have a secure, safe place in a heart that loves you so very much......
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My dearest sweet Lola, it's 6 years today since you left me, but on some days my heart aches as it was the first day without you. Your name is in my mind and on my lips everyday, I still dream of you, I won't ever forget, you gave a new meaning to my life.
I still love you
I still love you
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- #187
She's with your Vincie and Kirsten, looking over usshe will always love you.
Losing someone you love is the hardest thing in the world. It’s the kind of pain that you physically feel all over you. Lola was someone really precious. Each time your heart aches and you cry, it’s a way of honoring who she was in your life and what you have lost. She is a very special love. 
Lola sends all her love, as you send her yours......
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Feeling lost and with lots of what if's is part of the grieving process, I believe. After so many years I am still trapped in a sense of void, but I don't regret a single minute of what I did.
I wish you to recover soon and forgive yourself for anything you feel guilty of.
I also hope you have many people you can talk about it too, I find that it helps a lot.
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Seven years without Lola, seven years of grief, seven years of darkness.
I keep dreaming you, Lola. Sometimes in my dreams you look fine and I'm so happy, sometimes you're weak and sick and I feel so sad because I don't know how to help you.
I would have liked to have you with me forever, I tried to keep you with me, but I couldn't save you. Forgive me for not being able to keep you here. You were my light, I hope I can see you again one day.
I love you, Lola, I always will.
I keep dreaming you, Lola. Sometimes in my dreams you look fine and I'm so happy, sometimes you're weak and sick and I feel so sad because I don't know how to help you.
I would have liked to have you with me forever, I tried to keep you with me, but I couldn't save you. Forgive me for not being able to keep you here. You were my light, I hope I can see you again one day.
I love you, Lola, I always will.
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Vincie Is surely having a good time with Lola and all the other friends up there on their soft cloudsAntonio65
it will be the anniversary of my Vincie girl going to the bridge soon and i miss her terribly
but i know Lola is taking good care of her.
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But you did save her more than you'll ever know.
You cared for her, looked after her and gave her a forever home. In return she gave you unconditional love and her memories will last forever in your heart.
Years go by, but the pain of losing is always there. You will see your beautiful Lola again. Until then she will live in your heart.
She’s crossed over to a land with no more pain. A place where cat toys and treats rain from the very skies. One day, you’ll find this land. She’ll greet you and tell you all about her new friends and everything. Until then, she’s always looking after you, grateful for the love. They only remember the love. Tuesday will mark the day I lost my grandma to a widow maker heart attack in 2021. I see her in every cardinal and hummingbird. Watch for the signs she sends to tell you she’s okay. There will be signs. There is nothing to forgive, either. You gave her all you had. That’s enough. She’s not upset with you. She’s grateful for the years she had with you. It’s been a little over a year since I lost Sugar Mama.. her last memory of me is potato soup and me telling her I loved her… as I gently pushed her away from me… or tried to be gentle… but accidentally pushed her a tiny bit to hard… she slid back, but came running for me again.. and I just went to bed… she wanted me… and I went to bed… I won’t ever forgive myself for it, but I know all she remembers is me loving her. That’s all your baby remembers too. I promise.
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It's amazing that all these years can seem like an eternity, or an instant. The pain is always there, recalled again and again. But the love is there too, and somehow we go on.......
