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Overall, this sounds really positive. I didn't read anything that was worrisome or a surprise.
Great that you played with them with the gate up and that no one was bothered. Perfect.
Yes, cats at a certain age do have endless energy that is nearly impossible to drain.
The reaction of Cosmo to Monty biting his neck tells me he trusts Monty. That is actually a good sign. He knows Monty doesn't want to hurt him. AND Monty doesn't hurt him (which if he wanted to he could easily). Of course we don;t want this to happen but it sounds like a non-issue really.
That is great they are doing well at the gate. It is really when the gate is gone that one of them goes into the others territory and then one of them runs or something?
Do you think you could distract Cosmo, have your BF remove the gate and try to distract Monty and see how it goes? Not suggesting doing it now but want to get a sense as to how to achieve this.
GREAT on the site swapping. Keep that up.
SO how does it exactly work when the gate is down? Does Cosmo just sit there and Monty jumps on him? Or does Cosmo run and then Monty chases him down? What exactly happens? Is it possible to get a video of how they are?
The oopsie wasn't too bad. I would like to understand the head tilt and low maneuver by Cosmo. Oftentimes that can be a bit aggressive move. I see that all the time with ferals. Their head will be faced at a 45 degree angle to the cat but their eyes will be on the cat. The head will be tilted and lower. The cat moves slower than normal as well. That can be interpreted by another cat as potentially aggressive. SO Iwould like to understand it. BUT Cosmo doesn't seem like he is aggressive so I am not sure that is what is really going on.
As least Monty did let him go. And it is normal if a cat runs (like prey) that the other cat chases so I m not surprised. We would like to get Cosmo more confident where he doesn't run. I don;t get a sense Monty wants to hurt Cosmo, just tell him that Monty is the boss.
It is normal that Cosmo would be hyperactive after that but it sounds like they rebounded pretty quickly which is a great sign.
VERY good sign about the body language regarding the "fight" or encounter.
I think we need to build Cosmo's confidence a bit more. Play and positive encounters/associations.
DO you think Cosmo is kind of wanting to play? I have a cat that likes to run to get another cat to chase them. It is all a game to them BUT they don't get into it. They just run around.
Overall, I think this is positive. Not perfect but really not worrisome. I would like to build confidence and positive associations more. Then I would like to have each of you distracting them without the gate trying as hard as possible to keep them focused on the toy or food etc without the gate. And also, if Monty chases using a piece of cardboard or a pillow to block the path to end a potential chase.
I think you are getting very close. We just need to make a little more progress but I am not worried. Everything is normal and not unexpected. This is what many of us go through. But we will get through it.
Great that you played with them with the gate up and that no one was bothered. Perfect.
Yes, cats at a certain age do have endless energy that is nearly impossible to drain.
The reaction of Cosmo to Monty biting his neck tells me he trusts Monty. That is actually a good sign. He knows Monty doesn't want to hurt him. AND Monty doesn't hurt him (which if he wanted to he could easily). Of course we don;t want this to happen but it sounds like a non-issue really.
That is great they are doing well at the gate. It is really when the gate is gone that one of them goes into the others territory and then one of them runs or something?
Do you think you could distract Cosmo, have your BF remove the gate and try to distract Monty and see how it goes? Not suggesting doing it now but want to get a sense as to how to achieve this.
GREAT on the site swapping. Keep that up.
SO how does it exactly work when the gate is down? Does Cosmo just sit there and Monty jumps on him? Or does Cosmo run and then Monty chases him down? What exactly happens? Is it possible to get a video of how they are?
The oopsie wasn't too bad. I would like to understand the head tilt and low maneuver by Cosmo. Oftentimes that can be a bit aggressive move. I see that all the time with ferals. Their head will be faced at a 45 degree angle to the cat but their eyes will be on the cat. The head will be tilted and lower. The cat moves slower than normal as well. That can be interpreted by another cat as potentially aggressive. SO Iwould like to understand it. BUT Cosmo doesn't seem like he is aggressive so I am not sure that is what is really going on.
As least Monty did let him go. And it is normal if a cat runs (like prey) that the other cat chases so I m not surprised. We would like to get Cosmo more confident where he doesn't run. I don;t get a sense Monty wants to hurt Cosmo, just tell him that Monty is the boss.
It is normal that Cosmo would be hyperactive after that but it sounds like they rebounded pretty quickly which is a great sign.
VERY good sign about the body language regarding the "fight" or encounter.
I think we need to build Cosmo's confidence a bit more. Play and positive encounters/associations.
DO you think Cosmo is kind of wanting to play? I have a cat that likes to run to get another cat to chase them. It is all a game to them BUT they don't get into it. They just run around.
Overall, I think this is positive. Not perfect but really not worrisome. I would like to build confidence and positive associations more. Then I would like to have each of you distracting them without the gate trying as hard as possible to keep them focused on the toy or food etc without the gate. And also, if Monty chases using a piece of cardboard or a pillow to block the path to end a potential chase.
I think you are getting very close. We just need to make a little more progress but I am not worried. Everything is normal and not unexpected. This is what many of us go through. But we will get through it.