My Journey Towards Better Health

[Jcatbird]

Every state is different. I have a friend on it and he gets lots of medical equipment. The Social Worker is the key. Get one and if they see a need, they are a huge help in getting things pushed through where individuals cannot. White rice might be something you could eat. IDK I had a digestive problem and C. Diff from medication. I started on no fruit, no dairy, no veggies, dark grains. Lol Not a lot left! I started on white bread, white rice, white potatoes. They tasted great. Slowly I was able to add other things and now can eat normally as long as I am not overdoing it. No garlic, onions, tomatoes, or highly acidic foods. I can now eat most foods without feeling bad. Just hang in there and stick with mild foods. You’ll get there. Lots of love and support coming your way!

 

[tarasgirl06]

Well, if this ain't an emergency, IDK what is, kashmir64 , right?
Yes, M maggiedemi , baby food. Bland, easy to digest, small amounts frequently as opposed to "regular" amounts. A friend of mine told me his father was banned from chiles forever, and he's from a culture where chiles are eaten with every meal. For you now, that's not to worry about, okay? As for the milk products, I know I'm extremely lactose intolerant and a lot of people are because cow's milk is meant for baby cows, not humans or cats or anyone else. It's very hard to digest. Right now, especially. All that stuff, if at all, is for the future. Pineapple? Pretty harsh, right now.
A friend's mom had IBS and her doctor put her on a very, very limited, bland diet. It wasn't forever, just to get her stablized, I guess. She's eating more things now.
I've dealt with eating disorder, though not to your level, and in order to undo the damage, you throw it in reverse. In other words, you undo the damage, one step at a time, slowly but surely. You don't stop. And if you get at all discouraged by wanting things you can't have now, or setbacks, or challenges of any kind, you have a talk with yourself and remind yourself of your most important things, the things you can't do without. I'm not talking "things" here -- I'm talking YOU, your health, your beloved Maggie and Demi whose love for you is unconditional and for always, and yes, your brothers and your parents.
Sometimes we don't know why things happen, but I definitely believe in destiny. Things happen for a reason. Maybe what is happening in your life is happening not only for you to have a better life, but your parents as well. The reason your mom wants to hold on to those clothes is partly to do with the fact that they're YOURS and partly to do with the fact that they come from the time when you were small and she was younger and looking back on life, things were so much better/clearer/easier/??? in her mind. Emotions are very powerful things and I think we all attach significance to things based on emotions and memories. But I'm praying that with time, the past won't be the only "good time" your mom sees -- the present will be, too, because she will have her healthier, happier daughter to love, her home will be nicer, etc.

 

[Jcatbird]

I just went back to read all the posts. I hope it is clear to you how many people were hoping, caring and praying for you. This is why I wanted you back here so badly. I knew everyone was worried and they would all give you support. Lean on everyone here. A support system in so important! No matter what, please stay in touch. Other people have had difficulty yet experiences too and can offer great help. We all want to help.
You had me really worried.

Don’t make me come hunting for you again! I’ll put Banjo back on the search. You know she is an excellent nurse too. Maybe she should come visit later.

Maggie and Demi will settle down. They just worried. Having you back is good for us all!

 

[neely]

Oh dear, I completely missed this thread, don't know how that happened, I feel so embarrassed. But I'm here for you now with hugs, healing vibes, empathy and support.

I got my medical folder. I had to demand it. I told my Mom she is denying me Medical care which is against the law.

As you know and others have mentioned, it would be beneficial for your mom to get professional therapy. Regarding her denying you the proper medical care, that is referred to as passive neglect. But one step at a time, your brothers have stepped in and hopefully they can help your mom. Please take care and continue to advocate for yourself. I will be thinking of you and promise not to miss anymore of your posts.

 

[susanm9006]

One thing about getting hospital beds or other medical equipment through Medicaid is that your doctor needs to prescribe it. So when you have your visit you want to talk with the doctor about what you feel you need and see if they will authorize it.

 

[Lari]

BRAT diet! Bananas, rice, applesauce and toast (probably white and not multigrain with seeds and stuff). That's what's recommended when you're getting over a stomach virus because it's super bland, so that's probably a good place for you to start as well.

 

[artiemom]

I have recently gone through a very bad period of severe diarrhea for several months.

I had to have a colonoscopy. This is a really long story, not to be told here.

My point is to explain what I can eat, and perhaps M maggiedemi can have some ideas, until her doctor prescribes more food. She has to go easy..

My GI doctor originally put me on BRAT.. Now it has been modified to: no coffee, no onions, no garlic, no stoned fruit (peaches, nectarines, cherries, apricots). No watermelon, no avocados. no apples.

I am also supposed to go easy on bread. I find that real sourdough bread agrees with me.

This is temporarily to see what my triggers are..

I have been living on: White rice (I rinse before making), rotisserie chicken, very well cooked carrots, string beans and bananas. I have found some unsweetened vanilla yogurt, made from coconut milk.. It is really good. I cut up a banana and mix it in--for breakfast...

Baby food would be great!!!

For milk, I use Unsweetened Almond milk. I like it. Stay away from dairy. But yogurt and smooth peanut butter is ok.

And I am to eat several smaller meals during the day.

Make sure the veggies are well cooked.. mushy.. easier to dig]est.. this was Geoffrey, saying hello..... walking on laptop..

I have to go.. will be back later..

 

[tarasgirl06]

There you go, Lari ! That's what my friend's mom was prescribed for IBS.
artiemom So sorry to hear that!!! I hope you are recuperating and feeling better as time goes on. Those dietary choices all sound very appealing, whether on a diet or not!

 

[NY cat man]

M maggiedemi , when I read your last post prior to your absence, I thought you were gone for good. Little did I know....... But I am glad that you are back, and on the road to recovery. There is a device that you might inquire about, called a scultetus binder, that is used to provide support for the lower abdomen. We used them on men who had received belly wounds, and they are sometimes used after c-sections. One of those may help you, too.

 

[kashmir64]

I have a recipe for a cheese rice casserole if you want it. It calls for cauliflower, but you can substitute for chicken or any thing you want. It's one pan and super easy. And it will be easy on your stomach.

 

[Willowy]

If M maggiedemi 's medicaid will pay for a bed or new home, then I'm moving to that state.

Of course Medicaid won't pay for a new home, but they should pay for at least a rental of a bed if deemed medically necessary.

And there are ways to get an apartment, food stamps, utility assistance, etc. I know someone who wanted to leave her abusive home as soon as she turned 18, but had no money or anything. She talked to Social Services and they set her up with all the assistance she needed, and she was able to gradually wean off the assistance as she got a job and became more independent. I don't know exactly who she talked to; she just said she went to the Social Services office. But since maggiedemi won't be working for a while at least, I'm sure she'd qualify for all that assistance. The Medicaid caseworker might be able to find out who to talk to.

When you're ready of course. Don't push yourself too fast.

 

[kashmir64]

Of course Medicaid won't pay for a new home, but they should pay for at least a rental of a bed if deemed medically necessary.

And there are ways to get an apartment, food stamps, utility assistance, etc. I know someone who wanted to leave her abusive home as soon as she turned 18, but had no money or anything. She talked to Social Services and they set her up with all the assistance she needed, and she was able to gradually wean off the assistance as she got a job and became more independent. I don't know exactly who she talked to; she just said she went to the Social Services office. But since maggiedemi won't be working for a while at least, I'm sure she'd qualify for all that assistance. The Medicaid caseworker might be able to find out who to talk to.

DES would be a place to start.

 

[tarasgirl06]

I think hospital beds are allowed on Medicaid. You need a doctors prescription for it.. or if you have HOMECARE, a nurse will evaluate you and Medicaid will provide all the durable medical equipment you need.

My dad was on Medicare and he did get the things he needed, once he was under homecare: a nurse, a case manger, home health aide, personal care assistant, etc.

I am really surprised, that this was not done when you were discharged, unless you mother forbid it. sigh

I am so happy your brothers are arriving. It makes me feel so much better..
Yes, please thank them from me, also... and my kitty, Geoffrey, whom you would love to meet...

Just to cheer you up:
From, the other day:
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I know your post wasn't directed to me, artiemom , but I had to respond to those ADORABLE pix of Geoffrey and ask how you both are doing in your new place. Sure hope it's a lot more pleasant for you than the one you moved from.

 

[Alicia88]

I didn't read through every post, but I saw a few.
First - morphine. Yeah, that stuff is strong. I've had it twice. Once for kidney stones and once for a migraine that went on for 3 days. I believe you when you say you couldn't follow doctor's orders on it. I barely remember the hours after it was given to me. It's a fuzzy blur; like I was floating on a cloud. It took away the pain, though.

Second - I think it's great that you're taking responsibility for your actions, your choices, and your health. However, I think you need to try to be less down on yourself. Yes, you made mistakes. You messed up. That doesn't make you a bad person. It doesn't mean you need to keep beating yourself up. Accept it and move on. Don't focus on how badly you messed up. Focus on doing better in the future.

 

[foxxycat]

I'm so glad you are back!! Does Jello sound good? Maybe chicken noodle soup?

Maybe Medicaid can help you get a place of your own so you can heal without all the stress.

Miaxxxx

This is EXACTLY why I wanted her to call her case manager. Get OUT and live on your own without the harrassment and bullshit.

Much love to you Maggie. I want you to know-no matter what happens-we will always be friends. Even if words are said, real friends are for life and I want you to know that there are many people who love you and just want you to be happy.

And yes I mentioned instant mashed potatoes because it only takes 2 minutes to make, adding butter helps it taste better and it's good for your colon. you want soft mashable foods. Your colon has been out of sorts and takes a week to a month to heal after not having food inside it for so long-it has to heal and not eating won't heal it. So any soft mushy foods, 1/4 cup at a time once an hour is a good start. Basically 4 bites at a time. Rest an hour. Repeat in an hour. Sips of water. Pedialyte too will help.

 

[foxxycat]

I still have my calendar hanging on the wall with all the X's slashed through and when my diet would be over. It's really spooky hanging there. I made it 3 weeks, then no more X's because I was in the Hospital dying.

yes please flip it to next month and ignore the x es

 

[foxxycat]

i had read somewhere of a lady who had similar issues and she ate canned green beans and mashed potatoes. it was the only thing she could tolerate. She explained that some foods have an odor and that would cause problems. Also textures of food would cause problems. I really hope they send you to a nutritionist who deals in these kinds of issues so they can help you get better.

 

[maggiedemi]

Even if words are said, real friends are for life and I want you to know that there are many people who love you and just want you to be happy.

That was a big misunderstanding anyway. I always think people are making fun of me and nobody was even talking about me. I'm so weird.

And yes I mentioned instant mashed potatoes because it only takes 2 minutes to make

I love those instant mashed potatoes that they give you at diners! The really whipped up thin cloudy type. I don't know if we have any diners left around here.

yes please flip it to next month and ignore the x es

My mom came in and ripped the page off a few minutes ago. It's a kitty calendar.

 

[foxxycat]

 

[maggiedemi]

Monday I get my staples out.
My doc never got back to me to tell me if I could shower today. I'm terrified. Can I run the shower water right on the staples? Will they fill up with water and then I can't get the water back out? I'm imagining all these crazy scenarios. Can I use washcloth with shower gel? Tell me your experiences please.