Agree 100%, Mamanyt1953 -- so true. And it'd be like if I had kids and someone wanted me but not my kids. That'd be a deal-breaker.I thnk he needs replacing.
I'm with you.
My dad told me many years ago to never get involved deeply, either as a friendship or romanticly, with someone who doesn't like cats. He said that every one of them has issues with control, and I've found that to be true, almost without exception. I do not count phobias or allgeries, those can't be helped, but neither do I invite those people to be close with me, simply because cats are such a huge part of my life.
Personality-wise, for me anyway, the people I'm most compatible with are revealed as cat-lovers. I will listen to anyone (as long as they're not a rabid cat-hater, racist, religious intolerant or otherwise very undesirable person) because I like to hear what other people feel and why they feel that way. Education should be a lifelong process, yes?