GF is still trying to process the information. She loves you, does not want to see you in pain, is afraid of losing you... Her heart is breaking...i still need to learn not to just blurt or say exactly whats on my mind to the gf even after nearly 20 years i still cant do it. i made a comment i thought would make her smile or laugh during these grim times and she just burst into tearsgotta tape my mouth shut i guess
It is going to take a bit, for her... give her time..
Just be your normal self...
Perhaps if you guys just talked about your feelings, it may help things move along a bit...