Oh, good! That sounds ideal for you!oh just heard back from the guy we rented from last year-they are using a different rental company-price is cheaper AND adding washer/dryer and satellite tv/internet. So looks like we will just stick with them...in fact they are cheaper than the small cottages I see on tripadvisor..
Actually, I remember hearing about this kind of behavior in my youth as well. It's been around for quite a long time.I do not know what is with companies lately.. Do they have a glut of people interviewing? do they not call back anyone? It used to be that if you did not hear from a place after an interview, that meant you did not get the job.. I think it is their way of not 'getting involved' with telling bad news.. but, it seems everything has changed, and you do not know what to think anymore. Crazy...
Or else they're also desperate not to let themselves be stampeded into hiring the wrong person.The manager I did two interviews with told me that they were desperate for a new person. You would think that if they were desperate, they would make a decision quickly
I know you already know this, but it sounds like you need a reminder: Feeling like a jerk is okay as long as you're not acting like a jerk, and in fact you are doing the exact opposite of acting like a jerk. I know; it's extremely annoying that we can't properly explain our behavior to the cats we care for, but there's no way around that, so we just have to do our best for them and then let it go.she'll be ok, but I'll still feel like a class-A jerk for doing it!
Don't feel bad, at least you had advance notice. Sprite will be OK for one day.WELL PHOOEY! What I forgot to tell you all is that I am now patting and stroking Sprite on a regular basis, and she is spending almost every night in the SFS! I think that in another few weeks I'll be able to get my neighbor Suzanne to put the word out at her church that a kitten needs a good home. The thing that is KILLING me, though, is that we have a HUD/RD inspection on Thursday. We have snow coming (just a little, and might not stick) tomorrow. That means that I have to get up early on Thursday morning and boot Sprite out of the shelter, then push it flush with the wall so that they don't see the entrance. DANGIT! Well...she survived the 4 inches for a week not in there, so she'll be ok, but I'll still feel like a class-A jerk for doing it!
My gut feeling is that Sprite will be ok.. she may be hanging around for a bit, looking for the entrance and for you.. but she will be ok. I worry about her also.. remember Mama is still around, watching our for her baby.. she will not allow anything to happen to her.WELL PHOOEY! What I forgot to tell you all is that I am now patting and stroking Sprite on a regular basis, and she is spending almost every night in the SFS! I think that in another few weeks I'll be able to get my neighbor Suzanne to put the word out at her church that a kitten needs a good home. The thing that is KILLING me, though, is that we have a HUD/RD inspection on Thursday. We have snow coming (just a little, and might not stick) tomorrow. That means that I have to get up early on Thursday morning and boot Sprite out of the shelter, then push it flush with the wall so that they don't see the entrance. DANGIT! Well...she survived the 4 inches for a week not in there, so she'll be ok, but I'll still feel like a class-A jerk for doing it!
Maybe THE BF should sleep in the bathroom. He could get help without treating the babies LIKE that!!!Today I'm really angry because one of my closest friends told me that her bf locks their two cats (a 3-yo and the other is just a few months old) in the bathroom at night. They scratch and meow at their bedroom door, and not sleeping gives him panic attacks. I feel bad for not caring about her bf's issues if he doesn't sleep (apparently even earplugs don't do it?), but it breaks my heart and makes me SO mad that they do that.
Right??!! At least be patient and train them to stay out of the room... And she had warned him that it would happen when they were going to get the kitten...THAT would be the point I point to door- GET OUT and stay out. That would tick me off too. My girls sleep with us..and Honeybee doesn't take too kindly to a locked door. She will rip the carpet up and scratch/bite the door.
The boyfriend - trazodone. While I can understand the need for sleep, there's gotta be a happy compromise, and a bathroom is just too darn small. Either put up a door dividing the entire place in half so there's a barrier between the cats and the bedroom door, or sleeping pills. Sleeping pills would be cheaper and less damaging to the home.
Yes trazadon is perfect. Lol. You can get some Benadryl. That is the same thing that's in over the counter sleeping pills except for one type of unisom. I know because for almost 10 years I needed an aid to fall asleep... now I have a special tea...
In fact Jon and I are the type we would sleep on the floor in the master bathroom just so they wouldnt be lonely. Or at least I can..Jon can't anymore but i slept in yjere with honeybee when she got a bone marrow test and she wouldn't stop pulling cone of shame off her...
Anyways that person needs a smack on the head.
100% agree...I see it daily. There's women that treat men like crap too..I have several men here who won't leave their dragon. So it's both ways. There's crappy people on both sides.She needs to get rid of the boyfriend. If he treats cats that way sooner or later he will treat her that way, he's just using his inability to sleep to make her do something she does not want to do. And a very small kitten to be treated that way is animal abuse. Why oh why don't people, usually women not learn that this kind of behavior will not stop but will just get worse? There are more fish in the sea, there is a good man out there who loves cats and is looking for her instead of this jerk. I hope her friend will talk to her about that.
I do know that there are women also who treat their men badly. The difference is that in general men can do more physical harm than women simply because of their size. Since this is going on in HER place (it's not apparent if he lives there or is just spending the night) she should put her foot down and demand to either go to HIS place to spend the night or to put up with the cats NOT being locked up. Of course the best thing is to get rid of this potentially dangerous and abusive person.100% agree...I see it daily. There's women that treat men like crap too..I have several men here who won't leave their dragon. So it's both ways. There's crappy people on both sides.