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We all face those issues and have faced them. So it is common and understandable. But I know that you can definitely overcome that. I know what you mean some situations are more difficult. But I also know you can handle any situation. Once you start believing that as well it will be easier and easier and soon it wont even be an issue. You are obviously intelligent and you are a good person so I am highly confident you will overcome any fears etc regarding other people, conversations. Now, some conversations aren't worth continuing!! So I don't blame you for that. The fact you do better in situations where you have to react fast tells me your instincts are good and right. So that tells me that you will be fine even when more time is available. A lot of time the anticipation is worse so I know what you mean about talking to this lady. We can run through all sorts of scenarios and get tangled up and confused. It is a balancing act. To understand the possible routes a conversation or situation can take but not to get overcome or paralyzed by the unknown. Because the route really is unknown surprises can happen and sometimes pausing to think about it is the best route if something unknown pops up. There is no doubt your intelligence and instincts will carry you through anything. I really am hoping that you focus on all your positives and not worry about the negatives as much. I don't think you will "mess it up" but if you do it happens and we learn from it. We learn from mistakes much more than our successes. I know it is easier said than done and I know you have to believe what I believe I see in you but I do know that you will believe in yourself as much as I do.
GREAT!! Let's see what others think.
Yes, I think your brother could provide good "intelligence" about the house, the people that may live there, the cats, the situation. It is good to try to learn as much as possible before "going in" to the situation.
That is a good attitude.
GREAT!! Let's see what others think.
Yes, I think your brother could provide good "intelligence" about the house, the people that may live there, the cats, the situation. It is good to try to learn as much as possible before "going in" to the situation.
That is a good attitude.