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About a month ago someone in my area put ads out about a 4 year old male cat that needed a new home. The owner of the cat was going to release him to the streets if he wasn't adopted within 1 week. I had been looking for a 2nd cat to keep my 8 year old boy company, and I didn't want this cat to suffer on the streets, so I contacted them. They told me he was a very quiet, well behaved kitty. I agreed to take him in to see if they get along and they promised if it didn't work out they would find him a new home.
The day before adoption I was informed that he was not neutered. I was obviously worried about this but no one else had volunteered to take him in and he had 1 day before being put on the streets. I picked him up from a friend of the owner(this person facilitated the whole process, didn't talk to the actual owner once). The cat hid for about a week. I kept them in separate rooms and at the end of week 1 started the introduction. All was well for about 2 weeks. Eventually the new cat started stalking and attacking my 8yr old boy. It wasn't playful at all and I had to break up 2 pretty bad fights. At this point he cannot come out and be near my cat without following him around until a fight starts. I live in a 1 bedroom apt (spacious enough for 2 cats but not ideal to have them in 2 separate rooms at all times . The new cat will now yowl ALL night to get out of the bedroom, just so he can get out to look at my cat and fight with him. Last night he yowled so much I thought he might lose his voice.I barely slept. I tried to distract him with toys, playing, cat tv, it only lasted a few minutes before he would start doing it again. This caused my 8yr old to stress out and come to the door and start clawing at it. My partner and I have been sleeping in separate rooms (one bedroom, one living room) so that neither cat freaks out at night. If my 8yr old boy is left all alone he will cry and scratch at the door, if the door is left open the new kitty will attack the 8yr old. My 8yr old also has asthma and the stress of it is making it flare up again after 9 months of no issues.
This is no way of living. I have no idea what to do but this situation has turned into a complete nightmare. I've taken in strays before and never has it been this tough. I've called all of my local places to get new kitty neutered and the soonest would be in 3 weeks. Even then I don't think the issue will be resolved immediately. I've tried reaching out to the person that brought him to me and they clearly were not being honest when they said they would take him in (temporarily) if it didn't work out. I've tried posting him on various pages to see if I can find him a loving home with no other cats and I've had 0 offers. I do not know what to do. I'm already using feliway, cbd oil, and doing the most I can to relax them. It's not working, they just don't mesh well with each other and the new kitty has behavioral issues. I forgot to add he will not let us touch him either. If we reach to pet him he backs away or gets angry. He is not aggressive towards us unless we try to touch him, and even then he will just swat or hiss.
The day before adoption I was informed that he was not neutered. I was obviously worried about this but no one else had volunteered to take him in and he had 1 day before being put on the streets. I picked him up from a friend of the owner(this person facilitated the whole process, didn't talk to the actual owner once). The cat hid for about a week. I kept them in separate rooms and at the end of week 1 started the introduction. All was well for about 2 weeks. Eventually the new cat started stalking and attacking my 8yr old boy. It wasn't playful at all and I had to break up 2 pretty bad fights. At this point he cannot come out and be near my cat without following him around until a fight starts. I live in a 1 bedroom apt (spacious enough for 2 cats but not ideal to have them in 2 separate rooms at all times . The new cat will now yowl ALL night to get out of the bedroom, just so he can get out to look at my cat and fight with him. Last night he yowled so much I thought he might lose his voice.I barely slept. I tried to distract him with toys, playing, cat tv, it only lasted a few minutes before he would start doing it again. This caused my 8yr old to stress out and come to the door and start clawing at it. My partner and I have been sleeping in separate rooms (one bedroom, one living room) so that neither cat freaks out at night. If my 8yr old boy is left all alone he will cry and scratch at the door, if the door is left open the new kitty will attack the 8yr old. My 8yr old also has asthma and the stress of it is making it flare up again after 9 months of no issues.
This is no way of living. I have no idea what to do but this situation has turned into a complete nightmare. I've taken in strays before and never has it been this tough. I've called all of my local places to get new kitty neutered and the soonest would be in 3 weeks. Even then I don't think the issue will be resolved immediately. I've tried reaching out to the person that brought him to me and they clearly were not being honest when they said they would take him in (temporarily) if it didn't work out. I've tried posting him on various pages to see if I can find him a loving home with no other cats and I've had 0 offers. I do not know what to do. I'm already using feliway, cbd oil, and doing the most I can to relax them. It's not working, they just don't mesh well with each other and the new kitty has behavioral issues. I forgot to add he will not let us touch him either. If we reach to pet him he backs away or gets angry. He is not aggressive towards us unless we try to touch him, and even then he will just swat or hiss.