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Yahoo! Groups feline heart, support group
Yahoo! Groups feline heart, support group
Im so sorry.May God b with ure kitty n uIn October 2018, my cat Lovey who'd just turned 14 started peeing on the bathroom rugs. Then on the futon in the living room. I took him in for a check-up and it's cancer. Managed it with chemotherapy and pain meds. He stopped peeing. I had to have a large open kitty litter and clean it daily.
He started peeing again. The cancer came back. More chemo.
He stopped. Supposedly cancer free these past few months. Acting completely normal, running, jumping, playing, eating.
A couple of weeks ago I woke up and he'd peed on my bed. Two big spots in different places. Never peed on my bed before. Only the futon. I increased his pain meds to twice a day and two of them after talking to the oncologist.
He stopped and seemed happy. A week later he randomly broke his hind leg. No fall, no crash. Indoor cat, just suddenly crying and can't use the leg. I rushed him to the ER. Compound fracture. They did a bone biopsy and sent him home.
He doesn't eat so I bring him back three days later after trying to get appointments with the pain clinic and oncologist.
This time they rush the tests I've been asking for. Cancer everywhere and severe heart disease. His other hind leg could also break.
He's home eating, drinking, purring and demanding tons of hugs and giving me love bites. He's on heart meds and pain meds. I called one hospice vet today but will call the one I used in the past tomorrow when she's back in town.
I'm so mad that he's had no chemo for months and the oncologist was telling me he was fine because his blood work showed no evidence of cancer. Never once did they do any x rays, CT scans or ultrasounds to stage the cancer and see if it was anywhere else besides his blood. I even asked them to and they said they didn't need to.
Humans who get cancer get PET scans all over their bodies to detect cancer anywhere to determine what stage it is to determine treatments. They don't have that for animals but should at least see where the cancer is.
I did the right thing bringing him home though. We've had tons of hugs and love bites. My other cat has been washing him and cuddling with him non-stop and my dog has been hovering and went crazy when he saw him.
I want a miracle so he can magically be healthy again. The pain meds made him act normal and I don't want let him go. Ever.
He's my sixth cat to get cancer since 2015. I lost two more beloved cats from my childhood and youth two months apart before I got him in 2005. Another one in 2006
My poor Ruby will be an only cat. He's used to having lots of other cats and will be devastated. He hates dogs but loves my dog.
I'll have to get him a kitten at some point so he doesn't die of grief. He hates being alone.
But I don't ever want another cat again.
It's extremely unprofessional of a vet to pressure someone to euthanize a pet!That was nice of her but she pressured me a lot yo euthanize him now.
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Then she went back to pressuring me onto euthanizing him now.
These could be signs that it's not time yet, and you know him better than anybody else in the world. Only you can tell if he's in pain, distress, or he's uncomfortable, tired, sick, not himself.All evening and night he's pacing and flying around the place. Eating, drinking, climbing, using the litter, demanding attention. If I'm doing something he goes to Ruby for cuddles. Ruby is his little nurse and follows him everywhere, constantly grooming him.
I r had two different friends come over the past couple of days. Lovey was friendly and happy to interact. Both thought he looked better than the emails and paperwork said.
One of the friends has known Lovey for at least 3-4 years or longer.
Hopefully she won't be biased or pushed by the oncologist to pressure you on the euthanasia.The hospice/euthanasia vet is coming out tomorrow morning to see him. She's seen his records and spoken to the oncologist.
This is a possibility, the fact that you're in denial and don't want/can't see what's going on.I don't know if I'm listening to my cat, am in denial, fighting the vets or my friends are crazy too. They're both coincidentally from very superstitious cultures and extremely religious so don't really believe the vet and are convinced he'll get a miracle.
She can't, actually. Nobody can.How can a vet tell me right now is the right time when she isn't looking at him?
Keep doing what you're doing for him. You're doing great, and I'm supporting you.But he's seeking me and the good out. I'm not pressuring him to do anything. He initiates all his actions. Ruby follows him and grooms him so pressures him more than I do.
I medicate him, put out food, treats and water, change the kitty litter a lot and hug him whenever he comes to me.
I couldn't have said it better myself.Keep doing what you're doing for him. You're doing great, and I'm supporting you.