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You're not wrong at all for wanting that. It's best if that doesn't actually happen, but wanting a chance at finding another Meela is only natural. One day I hope you find another kitten that you can love just as much and who is just as special, just in her own unique way.
And maybe I am wrong for wanting this, but I really want Meela's mom and dad to have another litter of kittens
We're here, don't worry.Please don't give up on me if you don't agree how I feel. I have to get past all of my what if's because I know I can't change them. I am just not there yet.
I know how devastated you feel. I lost my 10 month old kitten last summer post-surgery. The pain is still intense.Thank you again for giving me encouraging and inspiring words. I am finding myself just falling down sobbing. Not all the time but moments that I can't control. I want it to get better. Its just so very hard right now. I truly appreciate everyone here.
Cats can definitely pick up your sadness. And they miss her too. Some cats don't miss each other, but others do.It's been strange at home. My other couple cats have been hanging out with me on my bed so much more lately. I'm not sure if it's because they sense she is gone or if it's because they can sense my heartache. Her mom slept with me last night and she hasn't done that in a long time either.
I was printing out her picture last night and one of them sat staring at the computer screen that had her picture on it. I looked around to make sure, but he was staring at her picture.
That's a great idea. Your pain will gradually lessen, but it will never completely go. That's because you gave your heart to an animal.There is one thing I think might help for me to do. With Tony and Neeni..after I lost them I wrote letters them. I did it for days and then every so often. Maybe that will help me get this guilt and remorse to subside. Eventually I stopped and that must have when I was able to move on. Right now that feels like it will never happen.
Has anyone ever done that? Does it sound crazy?