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If I can I will try and get a video of the lunging or at least the body language of the two cats when I've got Fluffy out on the harness"Thank you for you're kind words!" - You are very welcome.
"We had another hiccup yesterday morning, but this time it was Sapphire who ran up to hit him" - Interesting. I wish I could have seen it. Depending on how the hit went (aggressive, fast, etc) it could tell us a lot. Sounds like some discipline/mom teaching going on. Or it could have been some attempt at play.
"before getting scared by Fluffy trying to lunge back" - Yep. As long as it doesn't escalate too much.
" but again both seemed calm afterwards" - THAT is the KEY. If it was serious they would be acting very differently.
" (Fluffy will start huffing and puffing really loud after but I'm guessing it's from excitement as he also does it when he's playing). " - Could be.
"These little tussles happen so fast that it's hard to see body language" - I know. That is why we tend to watch how they act after so they can tell us what they thought of it. Fast rebound to normal = positive (not an issue).
,"but usually it seems Fluffy will be laying down calm one second and lunge the next." - That could be play or could be defensive. I would have to see it.
"Sapphire usually doesn't change her body language until he tries to lunge at her and her ears go back and the hissing and growling starts." - Yes, as expected to deter the lunge.
"Last night we did better. Didn't let them get too close and have them a special treat of chicken bits. No issues came up " - GREAT!!!! Positive association and positive encounter = confidence and trust building.
They are going to be just fine. Just keep doing what you are doing. It is a process with ups and downs but you and the cats are doing great. Keep up the great work!!!
A few posts back I uploaded a video of the two pawing at eachother through a gate but this doesn't happen often anymore. Sapphire either ignores him or she'll sit just outside of his reach and ignore him from there.
I'll link two videos of their common gate interaction now (which are very uneventful). The only thing that is missing is Fluffy doing his little butt wiggle before running to the gate.
Sapphire and Fluffy 2
Sapphire and Fluffy 3
Hopefully the videos work