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It's already been 2 months since we've brought them and it's just been traumatizing for us and the cats. Honestly, we've been moving them from room to room and blocking anywhere where they can hide. I think this was the reason why they're not trusting us. My husband keeps saying that the cats shouldn't have anywhere to hide and he blocks all of them...I'm not sure if he's doing the right thing or if we need to keep their hiding spots. I guess I know where he's coming from; a person with a phobia needs to be desensitized in order to get better and learn that whatever is traumatizing them won't hurt them. Not sure how this goes with cats though.You don't need a pet behaviorist. You just simply need much more patience. I mean let THEM decide when they feel safe enough to approach you. Sit in the room with them on the floor and read a book, ignoring them. If they come up to investigate, don't do anything at first, just let them take things at their own pace. Then if they stay, offer a closed fist for them to either sniff or rub their face. I learned the hard way too with my feral kitties that THEY are the ones to decide when to approach you. If they were in the wild and in danger of being caught by Animal Control, that would be different. Since they are safely inside, you've got all the time in the world. It may take months. Don't be discouraged though, and they will reward you with their trust, eventually. But their trust has to be earned.