I think people feel powerful when they’re behind the wheel and they power they feel is the same as the power they feel behind the anonymity of the keyboard. Pretty sucky.
I think it’s definitely worth a try. It may be a safe spot for her. I would comfort her. Not overly so. Not coddle but just to let her know that she is ok and you are there for her. She has been through a lot. I think being crated 24/7 can be traumatizing and not good for the psyche. glad you...
When she was crying, what did you do? Did you comfort her? Did you call her to come to you? She may be looking for some reassurance because she has been in a number of homes lately. Maybe call her to come to you that way she knows that you are around for her. And that way she’s not always...
What do you mean the vet wouldn’t help? You mean without an actual visit and exam? That makes sense. It’s hard to make a diagnosis without seeing it 1st hand. As well as a liability for the vet. A relationship has to be started between the vet and the kitty. Are her ears dirty?is she scratching...