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Am I wrong for thinking about rehoming my cat ? Will he miss me ? Will he hate me forever ? Will he ever adjust to a new place and new people ? I’m all he knows... I don’t know what to do. I have a 3 year old dom shorthair named Charlie. I’ve had home since he was 8 weeks old through 2 relationships and 3 Apartments he’s been my constant. I’ve always had issues with his behavior. I love him and I’m okaY with and used to a lot of things he does, but in all honesty, Charlie is not a nice cat. He’s mean. He doesn’t like to be touched, talked to or looked at unless he’s in the mood. He sleeps with me at night and sometimes wants to cuddle but for the most part he’s on the attack all the time. He does t let me cut his nails and there are now 3 local groomers he cannot go to because he has bitten or attacked the staff. I don’t know what to do with him. I also now live in a complex where I’m not even allowed to have animals but I snuck him in with me. Am I a terrible cat person for adding all of this factors together and thinking about giving him away ? I don’t know what to do with him. He’s not good with kids and even though he likes me sometimes I never know when he’s going to attack. I’m not scared of him but he scares me sometimes. And I hate being scared of an animal I love so much. I don’t know what to do. There’s a group in my area that takes in “unwanted” cats and places them in new homes. I just want to make sure I’m not wrong or a bad person for thinking about giving up on him. I think maybe in a few years when I have the property that allows animals and the space and the time I could have another cat. I just don’t want to feel like I gave up on Charlie but I also don’t want him to hurt someone or get caught being in the apartment and then I’m forced to get rid of him. I want it to be on my own terms. Am I being selfish?