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Okay so I’ll try not to make this too long... I have a 3 year old cat named Charlie. I’ve had him since he was about 8 weeks old. When I got him o basically saved his life. The lady who was giving away kittens said that they had all been dewormed and had not fleas or issues. She lied. My little 8 week old little was covered in fleas. I got him all cleaned up and flea free within a few days. I’ve always just attributed any “bad “ or rough behavior to him not being able to bond with his litter mates because they were too busy fighting off fleas.
He’s always been very rough. I’ve never played with him rough or let him bite me but I’ve always never redirected him. He’s just always been a rough playing cat. But he also has always randomly attacked me. I’ll juat be walking by or standing there minding my own business and he will suddenly launch at me biting me where ever he can. Mostly the backs of my legs. I have scars all over my calves. It’s so annoying but I’ve never really thought much of it. I scream when he does it and he’ll run away. But it’s like he knows I don’t like it. I have read article after article and I don’t think it’s simply okay aggression he is actually trying to hurt me.
Some times I’ll be sitting there minding my own business and notice him out of the corner of my eye , eyes fully dilated waiting to pounce , I’ll pick up a pillow and try to push him away or distract him and sometimes it works but sometimes he’ll attack the pillow and try to throw it aside to get to me. He’s relentless when he’s in his “moods”.
We moved into a new apartment about 6 months ago it took him a couple of weeks to adjust but now he’s back to the same old thing. Just attacking me all the time. At least 3-4 times a day. For no reason. Unprovoked. And I feel like it’s getting worse.
The other night I was laying in bed and he got in to cuddle with me (as he always does) I was petting him and felt him moved away, I couldn’t see him because it was dark and the next think I know he latched onto my forearm bit me as hard as he could and ran away.
This is where I ask my self , am I terrible cat mom ? Because I don’t know what else’s to do! I hate myself because I feel like I’m starting to hate him. My cat is my baby but lately I’ve been thinking about getting rid of him. I can’t take it any more.
I just don’t know what to do. I don’t even really know whg I’m asking.... I’m scared no one will love him how I love and scared that I will feel super guilty. I can’t send him to a shelter, I know they’ll put him down. It makes me sad but I don’t know what to do. I can’t let these attacks continue because he is going to end up hurting me really bad. Would I be terrible person if I got rid of him ? and where would I bring him ? I don’t know what to do....... I feel like I’m in a domestic violence relationship with my damn cat. He hurts me but “it’s because he loves me”. Smh. Someone just tell me thy I’m not crazy for putting up with it and help me figure out what I should do.
He’s always been very rough. I’ve never played with him rough or let him bite me but I’ve always never redirected him. He’s just always been a rough playing cat. But he also has always randomly attacked me. I’ll juat be walking by or standing there minding my own business and he will suddenly launch at me biting me where ever he can. Mostly the backs of my legs. I have scars all over my calves. It’s so annoying but I’ve never really thought much of it. I scream when he does it and he’ll run away. But it’s like he knows I don’t like it. I have read article after article and I don’t think it’s simply okay aggression he is actually trying to hurt me.
Some times I’ll be sitting there minding my own business and notice him out of the corner of my eye , eyes fully dilated waiting to pounce , I’ll pick up a pillow and try to push him away or distract him and sometimes it works but sometimes he’ll attack the pillow and try to throw it aside to get to me. He’s relentless when he’s in his “moods”.
We moved into a new apartment about 6 months ago it took him a couple of weeks to adjust but now he’s back to the same old thing. Just attacking me all the time. At least 3-4 times a day. For no reason. Unprovoked. And I feel like it’s getting worse.
The other night I was laying in bed and he got in to cuddle with me (as he always does) I was petting him and felt him moved away, I couldn’t see him because it was dark and the next think I know he latched onto my forearm bit me as hard as he could and ran away.
This is where I ask my self , am I terrible cat mom ? Because I don’t know what else’s to do! I hate myself because I feel like I’m starting to hate him. My cat is my baby but lately I’ve been thinking about getting rid of him. I can’t take it any more.
I just don’t know what to do. I don’t even really know whg I’m asking.... I’m scared no one will love him how I love and scared that I will feel super guilty. I can’t send him to a shelter, I know they’ll put him down. It makes me sad but I don’t know what to do. I can’t let these attacks continue because he is going to end up hurting me really bad. Would I be terrible person if I got rid of him ? and where would I bring him ? I don’t know what to do....... I feel like I’m in a domestic violence relationship with my damn cat. He hurts me but “it’s because he loves me”. Smh. Someone just tell me thy I’m not crazy for putting up with it and help me figure out what I should do.