We were lucky enough to have two wonderful cats, that were obtained at the same time, over the past 14 years. Unfortunately one passed away due to cancer last year and the one remaining was visibly lonely when we were away at work.
As what usually follows we got a 5 month old orange tabby 'kitten' from an animal rescue and he has been a great cat for his human parents but he has been a nightmare for our existing cat. We did the normal introduction period and they do not fight but he is always wanting to pounce on older cat and energetically wrestle with her all of the time. He is only 5 months old but he is already equal to her weight, 9 lbs, and has made her life at home a tense place.
We have read a lot of articles and they all mention is it a good idea to get two kittens at a time so they can play with each other. So we wound up getting a 4 month old kitten, 6 lbs, after a month of waiting for him to calm down.
Now on the plus side the orange tabby doesn't bother the old cat since he has a new target but when he isn't tired he is stalking, pouncing and energetically wrestling with the other kitten. When she is in the mood it isn't a problem but if he isn't sleeping he wants to be wrestling all the time.
The end result is that we wound up with the orange tabby and two cats that are nervous and hiding from the tabby trying to get away from him.
We have tried to play with him and used to play with wands and an assortment of attachments with him for 2 - 4 hours a night but after the first two weeks he grew bored of this and only is interested in wrestling.
The wrestling is not mean in nature he is only trying to play but it is breaking our hearts watching him torment the other cats just a much as is the idea of re-homing him to someone who doesn't have a cat at their house.
Is there any help or advice anyone can offer? I saw a couple of similar situations in posts here but the original poster never follows up one what the resolution was.
As what usually follows we got a 5 month old orange tabby 'kitten' from an animal rescue and he has been a great cat for his human parents but he has been a nightmare for our existing cat. We did the normal introduction period and they do not fight but he is always wanting to pounce on older cat and energetically wrestle with her all of the time. He is only 5 months old but he is already equal to her weight, 9 lbs, and has made her life at home a tense place.
We have read a lot of articles and they all mention is it a good idea to get two kittens at a time so they can play with each other. So we wound up getting a 4 month old kitten, 6 lbs, after a month of waiting for him to calm down.
Now on the plus side the orange tabby doesn't bother the old cat since he has a new target but when he isn't tired he is stalking, pouncing and energetically wrestling with the other kitten. When she is in the mood it isn't a problem but if he isn't sleeping he wants to be wrestling all the time.
The end result is that we wound up with the orange tabby and two cats that are nervous and hiding from the tabby trying to get away from him.
We have tried to play with him and used to play with wands and an assortment of attachments with him for 2 - 4 hours a night but after the first two weeks he grew bored of this and only is interested in wrestling.
The wrestling is not mean in nature he is only trying to play but it is breaking our hearts watching him torment the other cats just a much as is the idea of re-homing him to someone who doesn't have a cat at their house.
Is there any help or advice anyone can offer? I saw a couple of similar situations in posts here but the original poster never follows up one what the resolution was.