Clearly, a lot of people have never gone through a lot of the things that I have been through in life! or that a lot of others have. Seeing the big picture is critical. SURVIVAL is the first basic. Everything else comes after that. Thinking of the perfect life scenario needs to be thrown out the door. We don't live perfect lives. Certainly these feline refugees don't, and haven't. Think of going forward, not backward. What has been is over. Now is the time to ensure their survival as much as possible and the rest comes later.