so I have an extremely high anxiety anti social cat. His name is kitten and he's 2 years old. We have had him since he was a little over a month old (born in the woods during a really cold winter). I have 3 other cats + 2 dogs and he gets along with them just fine but absolutely HATES any humans who aren't me (he occasionally tolerates my husband). We have tried just about everything to get him to come around to other people. Having friends come over and sit quietly in the living room, trying to have people sit on the floor in the room with him one at a time, treats, the feliway diffusers. Nothing seems to work. It's so bad that the vet has to give him a tranquilizer every time he goes in. The biggest issue is that he refuses to eat if I'm not home. A friend stayed at our house for two days while we went out of town and he refused to come out from under the sofa to eat or drink anything the entire time. To be honest he also refuses to eat while I am home unless I sit with him. So if anyone has any advice I would really appreciate it. I love him so much and I hate seeing how miserable he is every time we have company over. Also.... kinda worried that he would just starve to death if something happened to me.