The one you ordered is beautiful. The cape adds a lot to it. The others were pretty too but not unique. The price is amazing! I think you got the deal of the year! It suits the occasion well.
It's hormones AND adrenalin. And it is perfectly normal. All of us (or most) who went through a wedding know that your moods change like that...generally every 30-45 seconds.You're sweet. Idk if it's hormones or that it's so close, but I've just been so moody. I go from being happy and thrilled to grumpy and worried.
I second that!Seriously! I think you could wear a brown paper bag and carry it off!
Well, a wedding is the type of event where you will find out who is in your corner and who isn't unfortunately. When I was walking down the aisle I had no idea if my mother-in-law, father-in-law and brother-in-law were going to be there. BIL was the best man! We did have a backup plan. My stress level was enormous and when I was having my hair done I just sat in the chair and cried the whole time. Every wedding comes with drama unfortunately.And there seems to be concern that fiancé's SIL won't show up last minute. I'm not sure what issues she has exactly with fiancé's family, and it'll probably look worse for her and fiancé's brother/best man than us if she doesn't show, but you think that would be the kind of person you could rely on to attend a wedding.
Yeah, I'm finding that out. My one aunt is coming, but told my mom she wasn't sure if she would because she didn't know if any of her kids would show up, and I'm not sure any will and she'd be one of the very few people attending both weddings and definitely find it lacking without my cousins.Well, a wedding is the type of event where you will find out who is in your corner and who isn't unfortunately. When I was walking down the aisle I had no idea if my mother-in-law, father-in-law and brother-in-law were going to be there. BIL was the best man! We did have a backup plan. My stress level was enormous and when I was having my hair done I just sat in the chair and cried the whole time. Every wedding comes with drama unfortunately.
It's not just you. A lot of us have that problem.but so hard to love myself.
Too bad I can't purraise that more than once! YES, Lari, you come across as VERY put-togther, and as confident as any woman planning a wedding ever is! And you are very much loved here. Like cotton, you're part of the fabric of our lives!Does it help to know that we love you, and would never know you had confidence issues. And, btw, you never come across here as being "not good enough". I mean, you did listen to every single song/video posted in the favourite songs thread !!! That alone, makes you better than most of us, I'll bet.
Oh sweetie, all I can say is you sooo ROCK!!! Baring your soul is a good thing!! You needed to do it. No matter who is or isn't there, your wedding will be amazing and we'll all be there in spirit cheering you on!!! WE LOVE YOU!!!!rubysmama Mamanyt1953 I guess I'm glad I present myself decently on the internet at times, though I'm not sure most people would consider my song thread listening an actual achievement.
I feel like I have a very complicated relationship with my sister sometimes. I wanted a sister so badly and was so excited when she was born. And then as time went on, it seemed like most things I did she was better at. So I decided that we just couldn't do any of the same things, have the same haircut, etc. And even that didn't end up working, because even though she went into a different field, she got a good paying job right after getting her degree, whereas I lost multiple jobs, couldn't get one where I wanted, and lived with my parents until I was 29. She's never been in a car accident - I've had multiple fender benders. And then I found my fiancé on match and was so happy and a few months later she does the same thing, but is a better gf and communicator so she gets engaged and married first - all while being seven years younger.
My therapist would say I'm spinning, but it just makes sense that her wedding was better than mine will be. Just like imagine she'll get pregnant first, easily, and her kids will be cuter and more talented than mine, if I'm even able to have them just starting at 36.
And she's my sister and I love her, but it's been hard watching her be so much more successful. So I just try to act like everything's cool because I know it's not fair to tell her not to live her own life as she sees fit.
I think a lot of times I feel like I'm never really "in" anywhere, just like on the outside of all my social circles, so then I try too hard and people decide they don't like me anymore. So the rejections or not hearing from people I thought I could count on seems to be hitting me especially hard.
That was a tl;dr vent which I'm sure doesn't paint me in the best light because I'm aware of how many people are worse off and I know I'm lucky in so many ways, but that's my soul bared. Yeah.