So i have a cat, just got him yesterday. He is very shy at the moment and pretty much hides all day. I don't bother him when he hides away and make sure he always has food, water, and litter near. I'm trying to let him adjust to his new home on his own but my family and parents are constantly coming over and bothering him. I tell them to leave him alone and let him get used to his new home first but no one listens. I specifically said not to pick him up because of how scared he was and if they wanted to see him just to pet him and give him a treat. My dad did not listen and picked him up and my poor baby tried so hard to claw out of his arms and go hide again, he's been hiding out all day now. Is there any polite way to tell them to stop and listen to me, they just roll their eyes and think I'm being too protective of him