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I have a 11 month old kitten that i adopted when she was 2 month old. I tried to raise her to the best I could: stayed at home a lot to keep her company when she was small, played her a LOT (like 3/4 hours a day for the first 6/7 months and then 2/3 hours today), gave her toys, videos to look at, cat trees ect.... And I do believe that she loves me but she is not cuddly. If I pet her after 2/3 strokes she is done, she never ever comes on my lap, she does want to be held. She sleeps with me but that's it. I am very sad. I have dreamnt of having a cuddly cat like my childhood one and she is not at all like that. When she was smaller I though that she was just to excited about play but she plays way less now but still do not want to cuddle. Why? What can I do about it? Does she really love me or barely? Why does she not like being pet? What can I do about it? I have always respected when she did not wanted to be pet (my bf did not) and never forced her to be picked up. But she still does not enjoy it. My bf actually thinks it's because I played so much with her and so did not teach her how to be cuddly just playful. Is that true? Help
I have a 11 month old kitten that i adopted when she was 2 month old. I tried to raise her to the best I could: stayed at home a lot to keep her company when she was small, played her a LOT (like 3/4 hours a day for the first 6/7 months and then 2/3 hours today), gave her toys, videos to look at, cat trees ect.... And I do believe that she loves me but she is not cuddly. If I pet her after 2/3 strokes she is done, she never ever comes on my lap, she does want to be held. She sleeps with me but that's it. I am very sad. I have dreamnt of having a cuddly cat like my childhood one and she is not at all like that. When she was smaller I though that she was just to excited about play but she plays way less now but still do not want to cuddle. Why? What can I do about it? Does she really love me or barely? Why does she not like being pet? What can I do about it? I have always respected when she did not wanted to be pet (my bf did not) and never forced her to be picked up. But she still does not enjoy it. My bf actually thinks it's because I played so much with her and so did not teach her how to be cuddly just playful. Is that true? Help
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