It is very true, for someone who can love an animal so much definitely is able to do so for another. I recently just took in a sweet little calico kitten, she's going to be 5 months on the 15th. My boyfriend helped me name her--just like he did with Howie. Her name is Penny and she is so sweet. She's the first kitten to head butt me so it's been a very different kind of love with her! I still cry about Howie because that's just what happens I guess....but I do want to reassure you, it will get better because it has to. Hope you're better today <3