Hello all, this is probably going to be a long post.
I took in a feral 2 month old kitten a little over a month ago. I saw him wandering around our house for a couple of weeks, no signs of mom or other litter mates… so I set a carrier with food inside and he got in. After that, I took him inside and prepared a room for him with carrier, food, water, toys and a litter box. He was in that room for two weeks and I would visit everyday, three, four times a day and just hang with him, read to him, did the eye blinking thing… From day one he ate and used the litter box normally, although never when me or my partner where around. After those two weeks, I left the door of his room open and he explored the kitchen, which is the room right beside the one he was in. All of this exploring happened and still does at night or when we are not in the house.
So far Ive managed to play with him with da bird type of toys and got him to eat treats from my hand. If I try to pet him, he hisses non stop, even though If I do pet him he eventually relaxes and even falls asleep.
The thing is, Im starting to get worried. Ive read everywhere that is easier for kittens to adjust but with him, its very hard to tell if we are making any progress at all. I also dont know how to approach him anymore. Im trying to give him space, but im scared he will never socialise if I dont force the petting and the physical contact. I am scared that I am always going to live with a cat who seems to hate us. On the first week of having him we took him to the vet and they told us he had herpesvirus, which meant we had to give him antibiotics and different medications. Weve had to take him to the vet because of this 5 times in a month. Its frustrating because i feel like that is traumatizing him even more, if possible!
Please help me, he is my first cat and I am so lost. I do not wish for a lap cat, I just want him ti be comfortable and okay with our presence without the constant hissing and looking terrified.
thank you!
I took in a feral 2 month old kitten a little over a month ago. I saw him wandering around our house for a couple of weeks, no signs of mom or other litter mates… so I set a carrier with food inside and he got in. After that, I took him inside and prepared a room for him with carrier, food, water, toys and a litter box. He was in that room for two weeks and I would visit everyday, three, four times a day and just hang with him, read to him, did the eye blinking thing… From day one he ate and used the litter box normally, although never when me or my partner where around. After those two weeks, I left the door of his room open and he explored the kitchen, which is the room right beside the one he was in. All of this exploring happened and still does at night or when we are not in the house.
So far Ive managed to play with him with da bird type of toys and got him to eat treats from my hand. If I try to pet him, he hisses non stop, even though If I do pet him he eventually relaxes and even falls asleep.
The thing is, Im starting to get worried. Ive read everywhere that is easier for kittens to adjust but with him, its very hard to tell if we are making any progress at all. I also dont know how to approach him anymore. Im trying to give him space, but im scared he will never socialise if I dont force the petting and the physical contact. I am scared that I am always going to live with a cat who seems to hate us. On the first week of having him we took him to the vet and they told us he had herpesvirus, which meant we had to give him antibiotics and different medications. Weve had to take him to the vet because of this 5 times in a month. Its frustrating because i feel like that is traumatizing him even more, if possible!
Please help me, he is my first cat and I am so lost. I do not wish for a lap cat, I just want him ti be comfortable and okay with our presence without the constant hissing and looking terrified.
thank you!