Can you do a little room swapping for short periods? Give your others a chance to go in there and get to know Robbies scent very well and visa versa?
My old cat Malia is in the bedroom with Robbie. She is free to come and go as she pleases. I could not leave her out because she has always slept on my bed at night. She and Robbie ignore each other. She is not friendly with any other cat or with Robbie. She and Robbie simply tolerate each other.Didn't you mention one of your cats were visiting in the room with Robbie or am I thinking of someone else? Who's the most friendly ,,chilled of your clowder- perhaps you can begin with brief interactions
.... I always do one at a time,I didn't let my Timmy be overwhelmed by 4 kitties even though it's a bit different becausd his enclosure is smack in the middle of the busiest part of the house.
But taking it real slow as you are is good for Robbie-he will let you know what hd os up for when in his safe place long enough for it to be a comfortable established territory,he will retreat to it when hes had enough or is not ready for introductions
You've got to play this by ear- the others will be just fine even though they'd like to get in there,you might want to try one and see how they do
Oh okay- thsts the one I was thinking about "Malia"- but that's good,it's good thst Robbie is not a trouble maker,lol Thsts how my Graycie is,she pretty much does her own thing so she's a good girl but just likes to be to herself-sweet girlMy old cat Malia is in the bedroom with Robbie. She is free to come and go as she pleases. I could not leave her out because she has always slept on my bed at night. She and Robbie ignore each other. She is not friendly with any other cat or with Robbie. She and Robbie simply tolerate each other.
So how long did it take before you could integrate Timmy with the other cats?
I would imagine in 4 months you'll be at that stage- I think it was about 3months I felt comfortable enough to go out with them all together,Timmy pretty much stayed in his cubby if I was not in the house - now he's out & about when I'm not home but I seriously doubt he'd eat his wet meals if someone came to feed,he'd hide when theyd come in....but hes not willing to be seen by any humans yet,getting close though-that would take alot and I don't have enough visitors to get him used to other people.....the more confident he gets in his home the braver he'll be- lolI have been feeding them their wet food on both sides of the screen door all along. I know it will take a long time for them to establish relationships but I have to admit I'm anxious for them to co-habitate in peace, hopefully in the next four months as I will then be going on a cruise with my granddaughter and it will be easier for someone else to take care of the cats if they are all together in the whole space.
Robbie already lets my grandchildren pet him. They are here every Wednesday after school because they get out early on Wednesdays so Robbie is getting used to them.I would imagine in 4 months you'll be at that stage- I think it was about 3months I felt comfortable enough to go out with them all together,Timmy pretty much stayed in his cubby if I was not in the house - now he's out & about when I'm not home but I seriously doubt he'd eat his wet meals if someone came to feed,he'd hide when theyd come in....but hes not willing to be seen by any humans yet,getting close though-that would take alot and I don't have enough visitors to get him used to other people.....the more confident he gets in his home the braver he'll be- lol
Well that remains to be seen- ya have to try to see what transpires,it sure would be nice to know who's going to be what way and who's going to be another but after ALL THESE YEARS I'm usually very surprised by the outcome - lolI can't tell which cats I can trust to be kind to Robbie and which ones are still untrustworthy. No one is hissing or yowling but Robbie is not comfortable around the other cats.
Yes,that is what's going on until Robbie is comfortable with the entire houseI have had them all come into my bedroom which is now Robbie’s room and they are all fine. But when i try letting all of them be together in the rest of the house, that doesnt seem as good, mostly because Robbie is uncomfortable and two of the others seem to take advantage of that and make him more uncomfortable. But i keep having them share spaces.
In this case, let them all come into Robbie’s room and this will make Robbie comfortable. If Robbie is ready to go to the rest of the house, he will and if he dos like being too long at other parts of the house, he’ll retreat back to his room. Just let him move around at his own time and even if he does not, I think it’s ok but at least he has the option to do so.I have had them all come into my bedroom which is now Robbie’s room and they are all fine. But when i try letting all of them be together in the rest of the house, that doesnt seem as good, mostly because Robbie is uncomfortable and two of the others seem to take advantage of that and make him more uncomfortable. But i keep having them share spaces.