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Hey,
I’m wondering if anyone else has gone through something similar. I moved away from home into a place where I share a room with a roommate, and I brought my cat.
She really likes my cat. And my cat really likes her. I feed her, care for her, and pay for her vet bills and all of it. I’m really grateful to have a roommate that loves my cat like I do. I was just a little disappointed to find that there seems to be something a little more than just being friendly towards my cat. My roommate makes little side comments about how my cat likes her more and she’s not wrong. She sleeps on her bed, lays on her chair, greets her at the door, waits outside the bathroom for her, let’s her lay in her lap, and purrs. The last two things she hasn’t ever done with me.
I feel as though I missed the connection with her and that I should rehome her to my roommate. It really feels like she is my cat’s “person.”
I’m wondering if anyone else has gone through something similar. I moved away from home into a place where I share a room with a roommate, and I brought my cat.
She really likes my cat. And my cat really likes her. I feed her, care for her, and pay for her vet bills and all of it. I’m really grateful to have a roommate that loves my cat like I do. I was just a little disappointed to find that there seems to be something a little more than just being friendly towards my cat. My roommate makes little side comments about how my cat likes her more and she’s not wrong. She sleeps on her bed, lays on her chair, greets her at the door, waits outside the bathroom for her, let’s her lay in her lap, and purrs. The last two things she hasn’t ever done with me.
I feel as though I missed the connection with her and that I should rehome her to my roommate. It really feels like she is my cat’s “person.”