Hi everyone
Decided to sign up and get as many opinions as possible on the progression and behavior of my adult cat with mine and my partners new kitten. A little background on the adult: She's 6 years old, indoor and hasn't been around other animals as we haven't had pets before. Personality wise she takes very nicely to people when she knows them but is temperamental with strangers, so if someone comes over that she hasn't loads and loads of time with she can be quite funny if they "over pet her".
So yesterday we brought home a beautiful 13 week kitten, she is british long (adult cat is british short) and she is a total bundle of joy. She loves snuggles, playtime and constantly purrs. She's already attached herself to me and my partner as she cannot bear it when one of us leaves the room. Now we wanted first my adult cat to just be able to smell the kitten, which she was able to do right away. Immediately she was hissing and growling when she came near the door the kitten was behind and then ran away petrified. She secluded herself for the whole day yesterday in our spare room and me and my partner were going to see her every 20 minutes to give her a fuss, treats and playtime. First few times I saw her she would meow and strike at me (only ever does this when she's stressed) and did the same to my partner, after a while she calmed down and was letting us pet her and give her a stroke, though would become irritated quite quickly and threaten with the paw. Then last night my partner took the kitten to bed and shut the door, which immediately my adult cat came downstairs and wanted to come in the living room which was now open. She wasn't stressed or anything, just very inquisitive with her nose, sniffing absolutely everything. We had a play with "hand under the blanket" and she had some more treats, then i went to bed in the spare room and she came in with me but sat at the door. During the night the kitten was crying so my partner asked if we could switch (he hadn't slept) so we did, our adult cat then decided she wanted to get on the spare room bed with him and have a cuddle and purr. This morning I sat with the kitten in our spare room and let the adult have free roam around the house again, she was ok just sniffing about, I then had to go out to work so my boyfriend was left alone. When I came out he told me that the adult had gone quite aggressive again, attacked him a few times, so when I got home I went straight upstairs to be with her and she was completely fine with me. We played, had a stroke and gave her some treats. My boyfriend again tried to go and see her and she struck at him three times, so after this we put her in the spare room and shut the door so she could calm down. Just as my boyfriend was going to bed we found this forum online where someone had suggested putting a sock on your hand and rubbing it round the kittens face for the resident cat to smell, so I did this, the reaction was horrifying. My adult cat smelt it for a few seconds before jumping back and hissing/growling, I then couldn't put my hand near her. I left her again to calm down and went back in and she was a bit better, took some treats from my hands and ate them, she also smelt the sock that I left on the floor and didn't react to it, just moved on. So that leads up to the now, she's currently roaming the house as the kitten is in bed with my partner and I'm downstairs writing this long post (sorry), I'm going to sleep with her down here tonight.
So now you know how the past 24 hours have been, would you say my cat has reacted normally? I'd also like to add that we have bought 3 new beds, 4 new bowls, a new litter tray, loads of new toys and two of those Feliway plug in things (I don't think they have done anything and we've had them on since 11am this morning). It's very alarming to see and to be honest I'm feeling really sad, I always tell people she's my kitty soul mate so to see her growl and hiss at me (which she has never done) has really upset me, she must be feeling super angsty and scared which is an even worse thought! So yeah, any thoughts/advice would be fantastic
Decided to sign up and get as many opinions as possible on the progression and behavior of my adult cat with mine and my partners new kitten. A little background on the adult: She's 6 years old, indoor and hasn't been around other animals as we haven't had pets before. Personality wise she takes very nicely to people when she knows them but is temperamental with strangers, so if someone comes over that she hasn't loads and loads of time with she can be quite funny if they "over pet her".
So yesterday we brought home a beautiful 13 week kitten, she is british long (adult cat is british short) and she is a total bundle of joy. She loves snuggles, playtime and constantly purrs. She's already attached herself to me and my partner as she cannot bear it when one of us leaves the room. Now we wanted first my adult cat to just be able to smell the kitten, which she was able to do right away. Immediately she was hissing and growling when she came near the door the kitten was behind and then ran away petrified. She secluded herself for the whole day yesterday in our spare room and me and my partner were going to see her every 20 minutes to give her a fuss, treats and playtime. First few times I saw her she would meow and strike at me (only ever does this when she's stressed) and did the same to my partner, after a while she calmed down and was letting us pet her and give her a stroke, though would become irritated quite quickly and threaten with the paw. Then last night my partner took the kitten to bed and shut the door, which immediately my adult cat came downstairs and wanted to come in the living room which was now open. She wasn't stressed or anything, just very inquisitive with her nose, sniffing absolutely everything. We had a play with "hand under the blanket" and she had some more treats, then i went to bed in the spare room and she came in with me but sat at the door. During the night the kitten was crying so my partner asked if we could switch (he hadn't slept) so we did, our adult cat then decided she wanted to get on the spare room bed with him and have a cuddle and purr. This morning I sat with the kitten in our spare room and let the adult have free roam around the house again, she was ok just sniffing about, I then had to go out to work so my boyfriend was left alone. When I came out he told me that the adult had gone quite aggressive again, attacked him a few times, so when I got home I went straight upstairs to be with her and she was completely fine with me. We played, had a stroke and gave her some treats. My boyfriend again tried to go and see her and she struck at him three times, so after this we put her in the spare room and shut the door so she could calm down. Just as my boyfriend was going to bed we found this forum online where someone had suggested putting a sock on your hand and rubbing it round the kittens face for the resident cat to smell, so I did this, the reaction was horrifying. My adult cat smelt it for a few seconds before jumping back and hissing/growling, I then couldn't put my hand near her. I left her again to calm down and went back in and she was a bit better, took some treats from my hands and ate them, she also smelt the sock that I left on the floor and didn't react to it, just moved on. So that leads up to the now, she's currently roaming the house as the kitten is in bed with my partner and I'm downstairs writing this long post (sorry), I'm going to sleep with her down here tonight.
So now you know how the past 24 hours have been, would you say my cat has reacted normally? I'd also like to add that we have bought 3 new beds, 4 new bowls, a new litter tray, loads of new toys and two of those Feliway plug in things (I don't think they have done anything and we've had them on since 11am this morning). It's very alarming to see and to be honest I'm feeling really sad, I always tell people she's my kitty soul mate so to see her growl and hiss at me (which she has never done) has really upset me, she must be feeling super angsty and scared which is an even worse thought! So yeah, any thoughts/advice would be fantastic