When I was younger (17-30) I had no end of guys that wanted to date me.
I always seemed to be in a relationship.
I'm 41 now and I apparently still have a following, that kinda freaks me out.
I'm a lot heavier than I used to be and frankly, I look in the mirror and I don't see a me that I really recognize.
Now I would never say I'm ugly, because I don't believe anyone is ugly, but I am plain.
I have all kinds of guy friends willing to drive 100s of miles for their chance, trouble is, I'm not interested in pursuing any relationship at this point in my life.
I've made this very, very clear and have told them that the best I can offer is a couch to crash on and a weekend partying with friends.
They seem ok with that and I feel it is because they still feel they have some sort of shot.
This is NOT a situation a woman my age is supposed to find themselves in.
I'm not complaining in any way, I kind of like the attention, I just have no experience in dealing with this.
Any advice on how to tactfully avoid an entanglement and still allow them to have a fun weekend?
I have already made arrangements for me to sleep elsewhere (Not in my trailer), while I've made my home available to them.
I always seemed to be in a relationship.
I'm 41 now and I apparently still have a following, that kinda freaks me out.
I'm a lot heavier than I used to be and frankly, I look in the mirror and I don't see a me that I really recognize.
Now I would never say I'm ugly, because I don't believe anyone is ugly, but I am plain.
I have all kinds of guy friends willing to drive 100s of miles for their chance, trouble is, I'm not interested in pursuing any relationship at this point in my life.
I've made this very, very clear and have told them that the best I can offer is a couch to crash on and a weekend partying with friends.
They seem ok with that and I feel it is because they still feel they have some sort of shot.
This is NOT a situation a woman my age is supposed to find themselves in.
I'm not complaining in any way, I kind of like the attention, I just have no experience in dealing with this.
Any advice on how to tactfully avoid an entanglement and still allow them to have a fun weekend?
I have already made arrangements for me to sleep elsewhere (Not in my trailer), while I've made my home available to them.