I'm at a bit of a quandry. I don't have too many real good friends, and especially not many here that I can do stuff with. I've always been like that, I don't make friends real easily.
Anyway, I feel like I'm getting the big blow off from one of my friends. We used to do stuff with her and her hubby almost every weekend, go over to their place (they have kids so it was easier) and watch movies, hang out, etc. Then Earl started DJing on Saturday nights, and it got cut to maybe once a month that they would go to the club and hang out. Then we were getting ready to move, so I was packing every weekend, then moving (they said they had plans for that weekend and couldn't help us move, which is fine), which took 2 weeks. Basically, I don't think I've seen them since mid-July.
So after we got all moved, I called to see if they wanted to do something. I've called a couple weeks in a row, and I haven't even gotten a return call to say "maybe some other time."
Am I being paranoid, or am I getting brushed off? I don't want to keep calling if she doesn't want to talk to me...but I don't want to throw away a good friend, either. HELP!
Anyway, I feel like I'm getting the big blow off from one of my friends. We used to do stuff with her and her hubby almost every weekend, go over to their place (they have kids so it was easier) and watch movies, hang out, etc. Then Earl started DJing on Saturday nights, and it got cut to maybe once a month that they would go to the club and hang out. Then we were getting ready to move, so I was packing every weekend, then moving (they said they had plans for that weekend and couldn't help us move, which is fine), which took 2 weeks. Basically, I don't think I've seen them since mid-July.
So after we got all moved, I called to see if they wanted to do something. I've called a couple weeks in a row, and I haven't even gotten a return call to say "maybe some other time."
Am I being paranoid, or am I getting brushed off? I don't want to keep calling if she doesn't want to talk to me...but I don't want to throw away a good friend, either. HELP!