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I lost Harry in February. I have read often people saying it's good you were with him/her at the end, but how do you cope when you werent there for them and with that guilt. Harry stayed at the vet the night before and I didnt go to see him because I thought he would be upset that he wasnt coming home with me, he always jumped back into his carrier after the vet visit. I wanted to wait until I could get him and bring him home, but it wasnt to be. His cancer had spread more than expected and he was euthanised during the op. I have such bad days full of guilt that I didnt see him, wasnt there with him and knowing that it will never change now makes it so hard. I just wish I had gone to see him before but I didnt want to distress him, has anyone felt the same and did it fade with time?