Not sure if I'm posting this in the correct forum so don't mind if it's moved.
As most of you know, I took on a long-term foster cat when my neighbour was evicted from his house by his brother (brother was landlord and has since sold the house).
To start with, Fluffy's owner visited regularly and texted more or less every other day. His visits have become longer and longer apart and the last time he visited was the beginning of February. A lot of what he said didn't ring true and both myself and my son had serious doubts. Fluffy's owner has had a drink and substance problem in the past, did keep "clean" but we think he's fallen by the wayside again. When he visited the last time, Fluffy wouldn't go near him. That was the last we saw or heard from him.
Fluffy has decided I am her human and is always on my lap or very close by. I have to admit, despite trying not to, I have fallen in love with her.
I think she should stay with us. Her best interests must come first. When she lived next door, she was outside 90% of the time. She used to jump in and out of a small window he used to keep open for her. When she came to us, she was being eaten alive by fleas (as we found out when they spread to my cats) despite her owner saying he deflead her every month It would seem he got the flea treatment but only used it now and again. Of course, having fleas she also had worms, both of which we had her treated for. She doesn't have fleas or worms now and nor do the rest of my cats. That battle was won.
If her owner turns up in the future and wants her back, how would you handle this? I feel she's been abandoned now and returning to her owner would not be in her best interests but I need to handle it tactfully and I tend to be blunt. Even if her owner had maintained contact/visits, he was told by our Council's housing department that it would be 2 to 3 years before they could find him a house or flat (apartment). I also think Fluffy herself knows because of the way she follows me around, is always on my lap, head butts me and sleeps on my bed close to me every night.
As most of you know, I took on a long-term foster cat when my neighbour was evicted from his house by his brother (brother was landlord and has since sold the house).
To start with, Fluffy's owner visited regularly and texted more or less every other day. His visits have become longer and longer apart and the last time he visited was the beginning of February. A lot of what he said didn't ring true and both myself and my son had serious doubts. Fluffy's owner has had a drink and substance problem in the past, did keep "clean" but we think he's fallen by the wayside again. When he visited the last time, Fluffy wouldn't go near him. That was the last we saw or heard from him.
Fluffy has decided I am her human and is always on my lap or very close by. I have to admit, despite trying not to, I have fallen in love with her.
I think she should stay with us. Her best interests must come first. When she lived next door, she was outside 90% of the time. She used to jump in and out of a small window he used to keep open for her. When she came to us, she was being eaten alive by fleas (as we found out when they spread to my cats) despite her owner saying he deflead her every month It would seem he got the flea treatment but only used it now and again. Of course, having fleas she also had worms, both of which we had her treated for. She doesn't have fleas or worms now and nor do the rest of my cats. That battle was won.
If her owner turns up in the future and wants her back, how would you handle this? I feel she's been abandoned now and returning to her owner would not be in her best interests but I need to handle it tactfully and I tend to be blunt. Even if her owner had maintained contact/visits, he was told by our Council's housing department that it would be 2 to 3 years before they could find him a house or flat (apartment). I also think Fluffy herself knows because of the way she follows me around, is always on my lap, head butts me and sleeps on my bed close to me every night.