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I hope the moderators don't mind this thread, I hope it is in the right place...
After 7 weeks, I wished I had wrote down all of the things that have helped and haven't. I am still looking for ways to help the grief and pain.
I have several observations, and would be interested in any of yours...
The grief, is up and down... and gives me small vacations of 2 days sometimes. My theory is the grief is up and down because few of us could stand the intensity at a constant level, we have to have breaks or we would be in the crazy house.
Things that have helped:
*When The Moment Comes - by Gareth, on this site.
*books that did help:
"Goodbye Friend; Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Lost A Pet"-Gary Kowalski
"Pet Loss Companion: Healing Advice From Family Therapist Who Lead Pet Loss Group"-Ken Dolan-Del Vecchio
"When Your Pet Dies: A Guide To Mourning, Remembering and Healing"-Alan Wolfelt
(have previously read "Cold Noses At The Pearly Gates" by Gary Kurz and liked it)
I read 3 other pet grief books, I like 2 okay and absolutely didn't like 1.
("The Cat Who Saved My Life" by Philip Schreibman was good too, but not a grief book)
One book suggested I write Georgie a letter, which I did and that seemed to help. I read it almost everyday, and usually when having a big grief attack and watch "Letter From A Lost Pet" (Vivienne Mathews) on youtube...
I have had 5 close friends (all childless) who have helped me through this time and cried with me...
Help...
After 7 weeks, I wished I had wrote down all of the things that have helped and haven't. I am still looking for ways to help the grief and pain.
I have several observations, and would be interested in any of yours...
The grief, is up and down... and gives me small vacations of 2 days sometimes. My theory is the grief is up and down because few of us could stand the intensity at a constant level, we have to have breaks or we would be in the crazy house.
Things that have helped:
*When The Moment Comes - by Gareth, on this site.
*books that did help:
"Goodbye Friend; Healing Wisdom for Anyone Who Has Lost A Pet"-Gary Kowalski
"Pet Loss Companion: Healing Advice From Family Therapist Who Lead Pet Loss Group"-Ken Dolan-Del Vecchio
"When Your Pet Dies: A Guide To Mourning, Remembering and Healing"-Alan Wolfelt
(have previously read "Cold Noses At The Pearly Gates" by Gary Kurz and liked it)
I read 3 other pet grief books, I like 2 okay and absolutely didn't like 1.
("The Cat Who Saved My Life" by Philip Schreibman was good too, but not a grief book)
One book suggested I write Georgie a letter, which I did and that seemed to help. I read it almost everyday, and usually when having a big grief attack and watch "Letter From A Lost Pet" (Vivienne Mathews) on youtube...
I have had 5 close friends (all childless) who have helped me through this time and cried with me...
Help...