So I am very likely to be moving out of country permanently in the mid-term future, and I'm a little concerned about my Pia kitty.
As far as she is concerned, she's had at least 7 "homes" in under 2 years.
1. Her first, where she was abandoned. I don't mean she was brought to a shelter. I mean she was literally abandoned, locked inside an empty house.
2. The shelter, which terrified her so profoundly that she was put in...
3. Her first foster home.
4. Her second home, where unscrupulous parents let both their children and a dog terrorize her without intervention, and then...
5. Back to the shelter, which led to...
6. Her second foster home, and then finally...
7. Me.
She is a wonderful cat, even after all that. I've had her about 4 months, and she has come out of her shell a lot. I have breakthroughs with her all the time. Today, she napped in my lap for the first time ever. She's sat in it before, but she was always a bit too skittish to stay for long. Her trust is coming along.
But I am very worried about such an intense move. She is coming with me. No if's, and's, or but's about that.
But I am concerned she will be very threatened by being in such a radically different place. She can be extremely territorially insecure. And every time she's left a territory, she's lost her human along with it. And I want to break that association and try to bring down her anxiety.
On the drive from the shelter to my home (which was over half an hour), she did ok. And that's a really good start. But it's nothing compared to a long plane ride across an ocean.
So I want to do a lot of trust building with her. I need her to trust me more than she fears change. Does anyone have suggestions for that?
I also would like to know if it's possible to take her in the cabin with me for such a long, cross-continental flight, assuming I have a pet passport for her obviously. I have flown with my elder kitty in the cabin, but that was within the country, and I know things are much more strict for crossing major boarders.
I would be going to Europe. Do I have to "ship" her (god, I hate that terminology), or can I take her in the cabin?
Thanks!
ETA: I would be going to the UK, and it looks like animals cannot arrive in the UK in the cabin. They must be "cargo." I'm not ok with that. I won't do that.
Has anyone brought their animals in via France instead? On the Chunnel or something?
As far as she is concerned, she's had at least 7 "homes" in under 2 years.
1. Her first, where she was abandoned. I don't mean she was brought to a shelter. I mean she was literally abandoned, locked inside an empty house.
2. The shelter, which terrified her so profoundly that she was put in...
3. Her first foster home.
4. Her second home, where unscrupulous parents let both their children and a dog terrorize her without intervention, and then...
5. Back to the shelter, which led to...
6. Her second foster home, and then finally...
7. Me.
She is a wonderful cat, even after all that. I've had her about 4 months, and she has come out of her shell a lot. I have breakthroughs with her all the time. Today, she napped in my lap for the first time ever. She's sat in it before, but she was always a bit too skittish to stay for long. Her trust is coming along.
But I am very worried about such an intense move. She is coming with me. No if's, and's, or but's about that.
But I am concerned she will be very threatened by being in such a radically different place. She can be extremely territorially insecure. And every time she's left a territory, she's lost her human along with it. And I want to break that association and try to bring down her anxiety.
On the drive from the shelter to my home (which was over half an hour), she did ok. And that's a really good start. But it's nothing compared to a long plane ride across an ocean.
So I want to do a lot of trust building with her. I need her to trust me more than she fears change. Does anyone have suggestions for that?
I also would like to know if it's possible to take her in the cabin with me for such a long, cross-continental flight, assuming I have a pet passport for her obviously. I have flown with my elder kitty in the cabin, but that was within the country, and I know things are much more strict for crossing major boarders.
I would be going to Europe. Do I have to "ship" her (god, I hate that terminology), or can I take her in the cabin?
Thanks!
ETA: I would be going to the UK, and it looks like animals cannot arrive in the UK in the cabin. They must be "cargo." I'm not ok with that. I won't do that.
Has anyone brought their animals in via France instead? On the Chunnel or something?
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