My husband had his cat for 2 years before we got married. He never set any boundries with him. I mean NONE! Now that we are married, that does not settle well with me. In my house, cats do NOT sleep in the kitchen sink or on the stove. Cats do NOT get to climb on every last surface possible. Cats do NOT get the house rearranged to suit their needs better. I really am tired of picking up broken dishes (but he was curious and wanted to see what was in the cupboard) mopping up water and having to disinfect every surface before, during and after making a simple toast! Any suggestions on how to curb his behavior?? PLEASE!