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Three years. I can't believe it's been that long since my precious Back wrapped his tail around my leg as we walked to the kitchen for breakfast. Since he dropped a toy at my feet so we could play fetch. Since that fateful day when I put him in the cat carrier while he was dealing with a hairball, he let out that horrific scream, and later that night I was burying him. I had told myself not to put him in the carrier while he was dealing with a hairball because, given how afraid of the carrier he was, he might go into cardiac arrest while under the stress of those terrible hairballs. I still cannot forgive myself for overreacting and not single day has gone by where I haven't thought about him. That's 1,095 days.
Sometimes I get mad. I ask why, since the vet estimated he was 7-11% dehydrated (and thus the cause of the terribly difficult hairballs), did he not drink water? It was either the day before, or earlier the day he died, when he jumped up onto the sink, licked the faucet, turned to face me and said "gluck, gluck" indicating he wanted a drink. I was about to leave for some hours so instead of turning the faucet on, I picked him up and set him down in front of his water bowl, which I had just changed. He looked at the bowl, he looked at me, and then he walked away! If he was so dehydrated and certainly wanted water, why did he refuse to drink from his bowl given how thirsty he must have been? I knew he liked drinking from the faucet, but I never thought he would completely give up drinking water if it was from the bowl. Weeks, months had gone by -- if I had known he wasn't drinking from the bowl I would have given him faucet water more often, or even bottle fed him which I know he would have loved.
There is no going back, it is 2017 and there is only going forward, but a piece of my heart still lives in 2014. And it always will.
Sometimes I get mad. I ask why, since the vet estimated he was 7-11% dehydrated (and thus the cause of the terribly difficult hairballs), did he not drink water? It was either the day before, or earlier the day he died, when he jumped up onto the sink, licked the faucet, turned to face me and said "gluck, gluck" indicating he wanted a drink. I was about to leave for some hours so instead of turning the faucet on, I picked him up and set him down in front of his water bowl, which I had just changed. He looked at the bowl, he looked at me, and then he walked away! If he was so dehydrated and certainly wanted water, why did he refuse to drink from his bowl given how thirsty he must have been? I knew he liked drinking from the faucet, but I never thought he would completely give up drinking water if it was from the bowl. Weeks, months had gone by -- if I had known he wasn't drinking from the bowl I would have given him faucet water more often, or even bottle fed him which I know he would have loved.
There is no going back, it is 2017 and there is only going forward, but a piece of my heart still lives in 2014. And it always will.